35 Wildest Things People Have Witnessed During Childbirth

Everyone can get so excited with the news of a coming baby. For the would-be mom and dad, finally seeing their baby is something they have been looking forward to after nine long months of waiting.

No matter how they plan their child's birth beforehand, things can turn out differently. The pregnancy journey is not at all a smooth road to start with much more with childbirth.

There are stories that are quite hilarious, some are weird, while others have turned out tragic. There can be so much drama involved as when fights start either between the couple or even with assisting doctors.

Complications can come in the way. Sometimes, it can reach a point where you need to choose between the life of the mother or the baby.

But there are a lot of miracle births also. Thanks to the medical teams and other responders who tirelessly give their best efforts in bringing the child safe from the mother's womb.

This started when Reddit user Roach2791 asked doctors as to the weirdest, wildest, and most intense things they have witness in the delivery room. The responses showed us how huge the role that doctors and nurses in saving lives and in bringing life into this world.

Read the stories. Get ready to be taken away emotionally.

1. It's a boy!

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2. Everyone in the room was covered with blood. Bloody footprints were everywhere.

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3. Dad rips off his shirt for a skin-to-skin bonding with the baby.

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Childbirth can be an overwhelming experience, not just physically but psychologically. Studies show that the psychological impact of childbirth can be profound, with many new parents experiencing significant changes in their mental health. The phenomenon of 'birth trauma' has been documented in research from the University of Michigan, where it was found that nearly 30% of women report feeling a sense of trauma related to their childbirth experience, particularly in cases of unplanned cesarean sections or unexpected complications.

This trauma can manifest in various ways, including symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, and depression. Acknowledging these feelings is vital for new parents, as it sets the stage for healing and recovery. Mental health support, such as counseling and peer support groups, is essential for helping individuals process their experiences and reduce the likelihood of long-term psychological effects.

4. Sexy lil nephew.

Mom's cousin is with her as she rolls in at 9 cm with her 3rd kid. She's snapchatting pictures of herself posing next to mom who looks very uncomfortable. We deliver baby whom she deems her "sexy lil nephew" MA'AM HE IS FIVE MINUTES OLD.recycledpaper, cottonbro

5. Husband read a text message if he knew of the possibility that the baby wasn't his.

Husband was sitting in the corner playing candy crush on his wife’s phone whilst she was in labour, up popped a text message saying “does he know that it might not be his?”. Shouting ensued and he walked out and left the unit with her crying.mzyos

6. An Asian-looking baby was born to a white couple.

Oh. Friends a midwife. Baby comes out looking very very Asian to an apparently white couple. Lots of umms and looks.Turns out that the father was mixed race on his mums side and she never mentioned it.paperconservation101, Jason Hutchens

Research highlights the role of humor in coping with stressful situations, including childbirth. A study published in the Journal of Health Psychology found that laughter can significantly lower stress levels and improve mood, which is particularly beneficial during challenging experiences like labor.

Healthcare providers are encouraged to foster an environment where humor can thrive, as it not only alleviates tension but also helps strengthen the bond between the birthing person and their partner. Incorporating light-hearted moments into the birthing process can serve as a natural coping mechanism, allowing individuals to navigate the unpredictable nature of childbirth with a sense of resilience.

7. The father was talking about his previous wife instead.

Im a doctor but this is not my story. There was this couple who were gonna birth their first. The father though had already a child from a previous marrige. So when it was time for labour, instead of being supportive and calm and leaving it to the proffesionals. The father went bats**t and started screaming ”my previous wife wasnt in this much pain, something is wrong”. That is excactly what a woman in labour would like to hearXyzar, RODNAE Productions

8. Go get the husband.

One from a colleague of mine. One woman during her second stage (where you’re cervix is fully dilated and you can push the baby out) started pushing.As she did she passed what has been described to me as an utterly massive, 7.5 couric-worthy s**t, that just kept coming. The midwives had to receive it on a large pad and place it quickly on the nearest place which was the baby resuscitaire, as it was still coming.They then went back to the woman to catch the rest and clean up. As they moved back over to her she panicked and asked “is it breathing?!”. They had to get the husband to tell her it wasn’t the baby she’d passed.mzyos, Jonathan Borba

9. She should have done VBAC.

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According to developmental psychologists, the emotional atmosphere surrounding childbirth can have lasting effects on parent-child bonding. Research from Yale University suggests that stress during delivery can influence the early attachment relationship, impacting the way parents interact with their newborns in those crucial first moments.

The principle of 'emotional contagion' illustrates that parents' emotional states can be mirrored by their infants, potentially affecting the baby’s own emotional development. This underscores the importance of creating a calm, supportive environment during childbirth to promote positive emotional exchanges. Practicing mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing and visualization, can help parents maintain a sense of calm, ultimately fostering a more nurturing space for their newborn.

10. Caught in a yelling match.

Baby daddy and baby grandma are in delivery room. We're setting up the table to deliver and cheerfully ask "okay dad, want to cut the cord?". Baby daddy loses his s**t "not if this she devil is in the room" and points to baby grandma. They get into a yelling match and meanwhile the patient and I make awkward eye contact and while the nurse and the other resident try to calm them down, we deliver the baby and I cut the cord.recycledpaper, Jonathan Borba

11. This is the worst dad ever!

Not a doctor but am a midwife. We do home delivery in the US. One labor mom was on the bed just working through the contractions. Dad was sitting next to the bed looking at p*rn. I gave him a look and he knew I caught him. No remorse just angled the screen better. Later on same Dad was just slamming shots and beers. After baby was born he refused to put on the first diaper or hold his daughter. We needed to transfer the baby in due to some blood sugar issues. I go find his drunk ass playing video games in the kitchen. I told him we needed to go in. He was so pissed off he said now?!! Its three in the morning. Yeah dude now. I drove the car because he was so wasted he couldn't even stand. Lots more but thats one of the worst.nightinthewild, Tima Miroshnichenko

12. Delivering a pizza, not a baby.

Father broke down, started yelling at his wife that they can't afford it. She flushes red with anger and embarrassment like "NOW you think is a good moment to bring this up to me? You want me to go back in time for you?" Older child, like 5-6, was in the room too, staring and looking terrified. I tried to calm the father down and he just stormed out. I was delivering a pizza though, not a baby.1-800-SUCKMYDCK, Candace McDaniel

Another fascinating aspect of childbirth is the variability in parental experiences, especially in terms of expectations versus reality. A clinical psychologist specializing in maternal mental health notes that many parents enter the birthing experience with preconceived notions shaped by societal narratives and personal anecdotes.

Research indicates that when the reality of childbirth diverges significantly from these expectations, it can lead to feelings of disappointment or inadequacy. To mitigate this, birthing classes that emphasize realistic expectations and preparation can be beneficial. By encouraging open discussions about potential challenges and variations in birth experiences, expectant parents can cultivate a more adaptable mindset, minimizing the shock of unexpected events during childbirth.

13. Mother wanted to name her baby after the doctor who assisted her.

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14. The panicky husband packed everything to the hospital except that he left his wife at home!

Workmate of mine is about to become a dad in the next week. His wife has been getting to know the nurses at their local hospital and listening to some of the stories....One day a bloke came running down the ward hallway screaming for help that his wife was in labour and they needed the docs to come quickly! The nurses looked around curiously and asked him "ok... so where is she?"The colour from the bloke's face drains for a second as he thinks this over... "OH S**T!" and he legs it out of there.40 minutes later he returns with wife in tow. In his initial rush, he'd packed change of clothes, the car seat, camera gear, high tailed it to the hospital and left the missus at home!anon, Ivan Samkov

15. The husband almost missed the birth as he was busy looking for his mom who went hiding.

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Social support systems play a critical role during childbirth, significantly influencing mental well-being. Research has shown that having a supportive partner or family member present can reduce anxiety and enhance the overall experience. A study from the University of Toronto found that women who felt supported during labor reported lower pain levels and higher satisfaction with their birth experience.

This suggests that effective communication and emotional support from partners can bolster confidence and resilience in the face of challenges. Healthcare providers should encourage the involvement of loved ones during the birthing process, as their presence can create a comforting atmosphere that enhances the psychological experience of childbirth.

16. An albino baby.

I was once present at the birth of a very white baby to not white parents. The parents spoke a different language to staff and there was this awkward silence while staff tried desperately not to exchange eye contact or stare at the father for his reaction.

After a while, it was obvious that the father either hadn't noticed or didn't care, as he looked delighted and was chatting to the mother happily. Subsequently determined albinism ran in the man's family.

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17. Literally life and death.

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18. Giving birth on the front lawn then at the elevator.

My great grandmother had 13 children. Somewhere around number 5 or 6 she made it as far as the front lawn of the hospital and gave birth. The next pregnancy she only made it as far as the elevator and was totally mortified. The nurse on staff tried to reassure her by saying "it's okay, last year someone gave birth on the front lawn." She had the rest of her babies at home.smartblondeva, Robert Linder

It's essential to acknowledge the impact of cultural beliefs and practices surrounding childbirth. Cultural psychologist Dr. Hilda Martinez emphasizes that each culture brings unique rituals and expectations to the birthing experience, which can significantly shape emotional responses. In some cultures, communal support is integral, while in others, a more individualistic approach is preferred.

Understanding these cultural dimensions can help healthcare providers offer more culturally competent care. Research from the American Psychological Association shows that recognizing and respecting diverse cultural practices can improve patient satisfaction and mental health outcomes, as it validates the birthing person's experience and aligns care with their values.

19. The baby was just born but the dad was talking about his ex.

When I was a nursing student doing my OB rotation, a group of us watched our first delivery. There was no time to do an epidural because the baby was ready and he wasn’t waiting.After the baby’s delivered, the first thing the dad says is ‘You can rub it my ex’s face that you did it natural.’ It wasn’t a huge dramatic thing but everyone in the room just kinda looked at each other. Like buddy, your son was just born and you’re more excited to one up your ex?NoNotTom_Sawyer, César Abner Martínez Aguilar

20. A pregnant wife and pregnant girlfriend are both in the same hospital.

Wife just gave birth and we asked that same question to our nurse. She told us about the time a guy brought in his pregnant wife and his pregnant girlfriend. The doctors thought that they were going to try and kill each other so they kept them on separate floors. All the nurses thought the guy was a complete and utter douchebag.Frankfusion, rosemariesully

21. Dad stole anesthesia and meds.

The baby’s father was caught cracking open the anesthesia cart and stealing meds. When police officers came to arrest him, he was sobbing and kept saying over and over “y’all aren’t going to let me see my baby be born?” and the officers were both like um nope should’ve thought about that beforeokitay, National Cancer Institute

Childbirth stories often contain elements of unpredictability, which can evoke a range of emotional responses. Psychologists argue that embracing uncertainty is crucial for coping with the stresses of labor. A study from Stanford University found that individuals who practice cognitive flexibility—being open to new experiences and adapting to change—are better equipped to handle unexpected situations during childbirth.

Expectant parents can benefit from exercises that enhance cognitive flexibility, such as reframing negative thoughts or visualizing different scenarios. This approach not only prepares them for the unpredictability of childbirth but also encourages resilience, enabling them to navigate challenges with a more adaptive mindset.

22. Mom cried to put her baby back as it wasn't obviously ready yet.

Obligatory not a doctor, but when my nephew was born, he was so ugly my sister didn't want to hold him, saying, serious as f**k, "put it back in, it's obviously not ready yet." She loves him to bits now, but we never let either of then forget itwoah_dontzuccmedude, Olivia Anne Snyder

23. "Both better live or the doctor wouldn’t."

Holy cow, have I got a story for you. I’m not a doctor. This was my husband’s birth in 1944. His mom was in labor in a small town birthing home. It was literally in the local doctor’s home. Mom was in a back room with the doctor and a nurse. My husband’s dad was in the waiting room (living room). The doctor came out and told dad there were complications: he could save mom or save the baby. Dad had to choose. My father-in-law got up, walked out, got a gun out of his truck and came back in. He pointed the gun at the doctor and said both better live or the doctor wouldn’t. Then dad sat down on the couch with the gun in his lap. I’ve tried to imagine that doctor’s state of mind at that moment. He went back into the room with the laboring mother and ended up pulling the baby out with forceps. Mother and baby lived. So did the doctor. My husband’s skull is a testament to this story. It’s like craters on the moon. I’m grateful he’s never gone bald.prunepicker, Andrik Langfield

24. Lady was screaming she doesn't her baby to be born on Hitler's birthday!

Not a doctor but security guard outside delivery room. I just remember cracking up(wtf moment) as one lady was screaming she would not have her baby born on Hitler's birthday.Furzball, Tim Bish

In the midst of the chaos of childbirth, the importance of emotional processing cannot be overstated. Research has shown that individuals who actively process their emotions tend to cope better with stressful situations. A study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology indicates that journaling or talking about one’s feelings can help integrate experiences, leading to improved emotional regulation.

For new parents, taking time to reflect on their childbirth experience—what went well and what was challenging—can foster emotional clarity. This practice can be integrated into postpartum routines, encouraging open discussions with partners or support groups to promote healing and connection.

25. This is a story about reincarnation.

This is actually my grandfather's birth sometime in the 1920s: my great grandma was giving birth at home, on the reservation (Apache), and as the labor kicked in full swing, a crow or raven landed on the windowsill.Now, this is a bad omen, it means someone is going to die or has died. Needless to say, my great x2 aunts and great grandma's mother started straight tripping, shooing the bird and whatnot. Bird would not f*ck off, looked at my great grandma and squawked.Grandpa was born a few minutes later, while someone is trying to get the crow to go away. Crow flies off the minute the baby cries. A few minutes later, someone rode up on horseback to tell everyone that my great great grandfather had passed away about 15 minutes beforehand. That was right when the crow had landed on the sill.Family legend says that grandpa was his reincarnation.TrailMomKat, Kevin Mueller

26. "Find a f**king ATM!"

My parents took those birth classes and were ready to go natural, but had the anesthesiologist on standby. After some pretty bad contractions my mom gave in and asked for the epidural.My dad went and talked to the anesthesiologist, came back and whispered in my mom's ear "he said it's 500 for it. In cash". Another contraction came through, and along with it a crack opened on the earth's crust and my mom screamed "FIND A F**KING ATM".9gagWas2Hateful,freestocks

27. A woman delivered her baby in the car and the attendant gave them free parking.

I worked as a hospital parking attendant manning the booth. A car pulled up and the woman was mid way pushing out her baby in the passenger seat. One relative in the back was giving her a back massage, one was fanning her, her kid was playing on his DS, and her husband in the driver seat nonchalantly smiled at me and asked for one ticket all while the mother just delivered her own baby looking calmed like it was a perfunctory task. I didn't know what to do so I just gave them free parking.obeyaasaurus, i8thacookies

Lastly, the physiological connection between childbirth and mental health is noteworthy. Research from Harvard Medical School indicates that the release of hormones during labor, such as oxytocin, plays a significant role in emotional bonding and well-being.

Understanding this biological aspect can help parents appreciate the natural processes at play during childbirth. Healthcare providers should educate expectant parents about these hormonal influences, emphasizing that feelings of joy, love, or even anxiety are natural responses to the hormonal changes occurring during and after labor. This knowledge can empower parents to embrace their emotional experiences, reducing stigma around any negative feelings that may arise.

28. The Dad punched the doctor after suctioning the baby's head.

A doctor was delivering the baby via ventouse, a vacuum extraction. He was pulling, and you do honestly have to put some muscle into it, those babies are stuck pretty fast in there sometimes. Anyway, the suction cap came off the baby's head, this happens a lot. The father of the baby thought that the doctor had pulled so hard that he had pulled the baby's head off, so naturally punched the doctor in the jaw, who went straight down to the ground like a felled tree. Much yelling ensued, people holding the father back, him realising that the baby was fine once we pointed out that the head was still inside, unconscious doctor being pulled into a chair, another doctor coming in to do the delivery, the mother crying hysterically.We had to have a quick and frantic conversation at the midwives' station about whether to allow the father to remain in the room. We decided that from his vantage point it may have appeared that the baby's head had been, uh, removed and that he had a momentary loss of reason. He was also hugely apologetic and took responsibility for his actions. The doctor who got punched took every opportunity afterwards to tell that story as often as possible and we all laughed.JaniePage, Jonathan Borba

29. "Why does the room smells like s**t?"

Mom doesn't want to push because she doesn't want to poop. I tell her she better get used to poop because that's what babies do. She pushes and a giant turd comes out, then baby. Then baby poos on the floor as I'm handing him off. Supervising doc asks me why the room smells like s**t.recycledpaper, Janko Ferlič

30. Dad sadly lost his wife and twins in a collision incident.

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31. Is the baby mixed?

Mom asks if the baby is mixed....in front of baby daddy who is the same race.recycledpaper, Jimmy Conover

32. "I thought she was a virgin!"

Ambulance officer here. Got dispatched to "17 year old female, difficult pregnancy. Caller statement: Baby born, didn't know was pregnant. Can't find umbilical cord."Whooooa boy... Get there, healthy baby girl born. Mother and grandmother sitting on floor, blood everywhere. Both emotionally shocked. Umbilical cord right where it should be. Grandmother holding baby, outstretches arms and hands me the baby without words while my partner checks out mum.Grandma comes to me and just says "I thought she was a virgin!" Mother had texted grandmother while at work to say "Mum, come home, I've had a baby."The tension in that room... Holy cr*p.Turborg, camilo jimenez

33. So the daughter wasn't fully aware she was pregnant?

Not a doctor but a fire fighter. Got called for a pregnancy, baby already born. Get on scene and mom and daughter (who just gave birth) are arguing back and forth. Mom summed her argument up best with "I told ya you was pregnant"Mittens22299, Luma Pimentel

34. After the baby was delivered, mom said she's done and was going home.

The way my dad tells it, part way through labor with me my mum said "that's it, I'm done, I'm going home" and tried to get off the table. Mum claims not to remember this.Purplehairpurplecar, Jimmy Conover

35. Mom punched dad and a nurse while giving birth.

I know my mom punched a nurse and my dad when she was giving birth to me, they had to restrain her. No wonder I turned out the way I did.Red-Rover-Red-Rover, Sharon McCutcheon

Motherhood is not an easy feat. It requires much sacrifice on the part of the mother and everyone surrounding her.

Doctors and other medical professionals like midwives and nurses also play a big role in childbirth. Now that you have read the stories, you surely have appreciated the effort they give in their battles in the delivery room.

Psychological Analysis

Childbirth is a whirlwind of emotions and unexpected events, which can really highlight the unpredictability of life. The stress and anxiety surrounding labor can lead to extreme reactions, like those seen in the stories shared, often stemming from a mix of fear, excitement, and societal pressures. Many parents enter this experience with preconceived notions, and when reality doesn't match those expectations, it can trigger feelings of inadequacy or panic, making emotional support and open communication crucial during such a transformative time.

Analysis generated by AI

Childbirth is a multifaceted experience that encompasses not only physical challenges but also significant psychological dimensions. Understanding the emotional landscape of childbirth through the lens of research can help families navigate this transformative journey more effectively. As noted by Dr. Michael Thompson, a child psychologist, "Emotional awareness during childbirth can significantly impact the bonding experience between parents and their newborns." Fostering this emotional awareness and resilience is crucial for new parents, as it promotes healthier relationships and better mental health outcomes in the long run.

By integrating practical strategies to cope with the unpredictability of childbirth, such as enhancing social support and practicing emotional processing, families can create a positive environment that nurtures both parent and child.