Teenager Makes Her Little Brother Look Cuter By Applying Makeup On Him, Gets Grounded For It And Redditors React

"It's disgusting to put makeup on a seven-year-old."

A teenager tried to do a harmless little “makeover” moment with her seven-year-old brother, and somehow it turned into a full-on family blowup. OP grabbed makeup, applied it to her little brother, and watched him run back into his room, then return looking extra cute in pink, flowered clothes.

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That’s the part that reads like a kids-being-kids story. But OP’s dad saw it differently, got upset, and grounded her for it. Even though OP wasn’t trying to change her brother into something else, she still worried, “Am I the asshole,” because the whole thing involved a kid, eyeliner, and a parent who was not amused.

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Now the Reddit comments are arguing over whether this was playful inclusion or a line crossed way too far.

The OP pens down the headline

The OP pens down the headlineReddit/DismalStrategy2151
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OP's brother ran to his room and came back with clothes that were pink or had flowers on them

OP's brother ran to his room and came back with clothes that were pink or had flowers on themReddit/DismalStrategy2151
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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

I put makeup on my brother. I might be the asshole because he's seven, and my dad was upset and grounded me.

The Reddit post received hundreds of comments, and here are a few of them for you to read through below

The Reddit post received hundreds of comments, and here are a few of them for you to read through belowReddit/DismalStrategy2151

That’s when OP’s brother comes back in pink and flowers, and the “cute prank” vibe starts colliding with dad’s anger over the eyeliner.

However, it's crucial to consider age-appropriate boundaries and parental guidance in these scenarios.

OP's father said that due to the brother's age,

OP's father said that due to the brother's age,Reddit/DismalStrategy2151

OP's dad is severely overreacting to a little eyeliner

OP's dad is severely overreacting to a little eyelinerReddit/DismalStrategy2151

OP's dad is freaking out for no reason

OP's dad is freaking out for no reasonReddit/DismalStrategy2151

OP explains she only meant to have fun, but the grounding decision makes everyone zoom in on the “age-appropriate boundaries” argument.

The reactions to the teenager's actions highlight societal attitudes toward gender roles and childhood innocence.

This is also like the AITA about spicing up family dinner, leaving the brother in a fiery predicament.

It was not done to turn the kid into an adult

It was not done to turn the kid into an adultReddit/DismalStrategy2151

This Redditor said that sharing eyeliner can be unsanitary

This Redditor said that sharing eyeliner can be unsanitaryReddit/DismalStrategy2151

The OP should stay close to her brother as he's going to need her

The OP should stay close to her brother as he's going to need herReddit/DismalStrategy2151

The comments get louder when people bring up sharing eyeliner being unsanitary, because it stops being about style and starts being about safety.

It's essential for the older sibling to discuss the motivations behind their actions with their parents to foster understanding.

Open communication can help parents recognize the intent behind the makeup application rather than viewing it strictly as inappropriate behavior.

He doesn't see it any differently than having some fun

He doesn't see it any differently than having some funReddit/DismalStrategy2151

The OP was having fun and included her brother in the fun

The OP was having fun and included her brother in the funReddit/DismalStrategy2151

Not letting the OP go to the movies is overkill

Not letting the OP go to the movies is overkillReddit/DismalStrategy2151

In the end, the post gets ruled not the asshole, but the family dinner did not end well in the way that matters, with dad still furious.

Additionally, parents should consider setting boundaries around certain activities while also allowing for creative expression.

Some Redditors argue that cosmetics for children are not as safe as makeup for adults, while others say that no makeup is safer than any makeup. In addition to the possibility of an allergic reaction, it needs to be applied properly, and the majority of makeup is not regulated for toxins.

In the end, the OP was declared not the AH, and you can share this story with your loved ones to get their verdict as well.

Encouraging Healthy Expression

Establishing rules about appropriate times and places for creative activities can help address parental concerns.

The incident of a teenager applying makeup on her little brother highlights the intricate dynamics of sibling relationships and the challenges parents face in managing them. While the act itself may stem from a place of creativity and affection, it raises pertinent questions about safety and parental oversight.

In a world where self-expression is increasingly celebrated, this situation reminds us that boundaries are essential. The playful spirit of applying makeup can quickly turn into a concern for parents who wish to protect their children from potential harm, both physically and socially.

Encouraging creativity within safe limits not only fosters individual expression but also strengthens family bonds. Striking a balance is crucial, as it allows siblings to explore their interests while ensuring that parental guidance remains a cornerstone of healthy family dynamics.

The whole thing ends with Reddit saying OP probably meant “play,” while her dad heard “crossed a line.”

For another family blowup, read what happened when a vegan sister was served non-vegan food at dinner.

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