Man Asks The Internet If He Was Wrong For Telling His Employee She Can Choose Between Demotion And Termination After She Screwed Up Badly

One small business owner thought he was giving his best cashier a shot at something bigger, but the first day of her promotion turned into a disaster. The store stayed locked, customers were left waiting outside, and the owner could not get her on the phone when he needed her most.

He says the issue was not that she took a mental health day, it was that she never told anyone. After that, he gave her a blunt choice between demotion and termination, and the internet quickly had opinions about whether he went too far.

Now the whole situation has turned into a debate about responsibility, trust, and what a manager should do after a huge mistake.

The original post:

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A small business owner had just promoted a cashier, but she messed up big-time on her first day

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That promotion did not last long.

He gave her a choice:

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It’s not about gender or mental health here

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People online were quick to pick a side.

Now, about this "spoon thing..."

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Another manager comments that mental health days are very important, but not calling to inform the owner is unacceptable.

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This person emphasized that Peggy didn’t apologize and instead placed blame on the owner

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And the blame game did not help her case.

Again, spoons

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Peggy’s irresponsibility is costing people money

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Major red flag indeed...

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For a lot of readers, the missing phone call was the real issue.

This is the same kind of workplace fallout as the AITA fight over refusing to cover a procrastinating coworker’s missed deadline.

It looks like many people wouldn’t have given her the opportunity to choose

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And some of the people online think Peggy was taking him for a ride

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Calling is common courtesy

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Fair offer

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This business owner emphasizes the need for him to protect himself

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He was not the only one thinking about damage control.

Texting is easy

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People use the spoon metaphor way too much

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Peggy is not cut out to be a manager

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Another NTA verdict coming from a person who deals with similar issues like Peggy

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A person with depression also believes the OP was right

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Peggy chose not to call or send a text

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Managers can’t just not show up for work

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Calling before taking the day off is a must

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So, what do you think about the owner's actions?

But the biggest problem is her total reluctance to take any responsibility. Instead of admitting her own mistake, she started to accuse the owner of being insensitive to her condition and of discriminating against her because of her mental state and gender.

What does gender have to do with this? Did the fact that she is a woman somehow prevent her from picking up the phone?

Now he's left with a mess, and the internet is still arguing over who handled it worse.

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