Heated Argument Ensues After Man Returns His Future Wife’s Dream Wedding Dress, Claiming She Was Just "Wasting Money"
"Ever since I was young, I dreamed of having my own beautiful wedding dress. I can afford it."
A wedding dress can be more than fabric and lace, especially when it has been part of someone’s dream for years. For one 29-year-old woman, that dream turned into a fight after her fiancé decided the gown was too expensive and took matters into his own hands.
The couple had been planning their wedding, but the dress became a major point of tension. She bought the gown anyway, only to come home and find it missing from the closet, with her future husband claiming he had returned it for a refund.
What followed was a heated clash over money, control, and a dress she had always wanted. Read on.
Man Returns His Future Wife’s Dream Wedding Dress Without Her Knowledge
Emma BausoThere’s no right financial budget for a wedding dress. Everything depends on you and what you can afford. While one individual can spend a thousand dollars on a wedding dress, another person might consider other options.
The OP was not happy with what her soon-to-be husband did, and she definitely showed it. Read how the whole story unfolded below.
The wedding plans had been going smoothly, until the dress became the issue.
Wedding Plans Had Been Going Well
Sealine5033I've Dreamed of My Own Wedding Dress
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Why Not Make It Special?
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He Wanted Me to Rent a Dress
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I'm Being Irresponsible
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I Purchased the Dress...
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He Said He Returned It
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Now, How Are We Going to Tackle the Issue Before Us?
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I'm the One Paying for the Dress
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He Got Upset
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What He Kept on About...
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He Gets Zero Say in How I Spend My Money
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She Urged Me Too
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He Still Has the Money
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The Reddit thread gathered a lot of attention as it was upvoted 19K times, with more than 7,000 comments and 21 awards. Most of the Redditors were of the opinion that there were many red flags in the OP’s relationship, and they even went ahead to list them.
We’ve gathered some of the most upvoted comments from the post, so go ahead and check them out.
This echoes the fight in a sister’s lavish wedding budget, where someone debates refusing to fund it.
Redditors did not hold back.
Consider This a Bullet Dodged
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What You'll Be Signing Up for If You Go Ahead with the Marriage
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There Are Some Serious Red Flags
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I Hope He Gave You Your Full Refund
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We Both Don't Get Along Often
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A Fine and Responsible Thing to Do
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Spending Your Life with This Pile of Red Flags
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These Are Both Big Red Flags
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It Won't Cause Anyone Any Financial Struggles
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He Wasn't Like This in the Past
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Planning a wedding is already enough of a headache, not to mention when your soon-to-be spouse is adding to your worries. There’s nothing wrong with purchasing the wedding dress of your dreams, so long as you can afford it, but the OP’s fiancé chose not to support her and instead ran to his mom for support.
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This engagement may have bigger problems than the dress.
Wait until you see the maid of honor refusing to pay for her friend’s dream wedding dress.
