20 Women Respond To A Question Asking Whether They Would Get Married Again If They Could Go Back In Time
You know the universal answer to this question, but let me explain.
What would you do if you could go back in time? That's a simple question with countless answers.
Most people would do things differently if they ever went back in time; after all, no one wants to repeat the same mistakes over and over again.
However, there are some people who got it right the first time, and so even if they went back in time, they'd still do exactly what they did all over again.
It makes sense. If you've found the right formula, why would you change anything about it?
Don't fix what's not broken, right? Redditor _Just-a-sad-girl_ had a question in mind, but it was specific to married women.
She asked married women whether they'd get married again if they could go back in time, and let's just say it's a mixed bag of emotions.
While some women swore they'd do things differently, others said they'd repeat everything. I'm happy for the women who've got it right the first time, but not everyone is so lucky.
After reading some comments, my heart broke for women who are unable to live a purposeful life. While some women were married at a young age, others aren't able to lead fulfilling lives.
Marriage is about fun, understanding, love, memories, and everything nice. I fail to understand how two people, who vow to be there for each other, often find themselves at each other's throats.
One woman's comment sent chills down my spine. According to her, the moment she got married, her partner just changed.
He became the worst version of himself. That's just sad.
Here are a few more confessions we've got to read.
1. I wish we had the backstory here.
2. I feel you, hun.
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4. Well, if it ain't broken...
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5. I know, a backstory would be helpful.
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6. Aww, this is just sad. The last part cracked me up.
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7. Being married shouldn't be about not having fun together.
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8. Aww!!! That's more like it!
9. Exactly, don't make the same mistake twice.
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10. Aww, this is so mushy!
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11. This is gold, people.
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12. You go, girl.
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13. Yes, ma'am!
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14. That's not a good way to live life.
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15. Yes, that's good criteria *cough cough*
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16. That's what most men want, sadly.
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17. Aww, this is refreshing!
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18. Oohh... They look like they're so much in love!
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19. Oh. Well, we might have a wee bit of a problem.
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20. True, sometimes the pain isn't worth the reward.
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In Summary...
It's crazy what marriage can do to your mental, physical, and emotional self. We've always heard the saying, "Two heads are better than one."
But it seems that when it comes to marriages, this saying doesn't hold true. It's sad that two people who love each other on the day they're married can lose all feelings for each other as time passes.
But it's no one's fault, honestly. Marriages are also about sacrifices and compromises, and it takes two to meet in the middle.
Anyway, would you marry the same person again if you could go back in time? Let us know in the comments!