20 Women Respond To A Question Asking Whether They Would Get Married Again If They Could Go Back In Time

You know the universal answer to this question, but let me explain.

Some marriages are easy to celebrate, and others leave people wondering what they would do differently the second time around.

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That is exactly the mood in this Reddit thread, where one user asked married women whether they would get married again if they could go back in time.

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What follows is a mix of regret, loyalty, and blunt honesty, and one comment in particular makes the whole thing feel a lot heavier. Read on.

1. I wish we had the backstory here.

1. I wish we had the backstory here.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_
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2. I feel you, hun.

2. I feel you, hun.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_
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3. This is scary and crazy.

3. This is scary and crazy.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

That question hit a nerve right away.

4. Well, if it ain't broken...

4. Well, if it ain't broken...u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

5. I know, a backstory would be helpful.

5. I know, a backstory would be helpful.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

6. Aww, this is just sad. The last part cracked me up.

6. Aww, this is just sad. The last part cracked me up.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

Some of these replies are sweet, and some are hard to read.

7. Being married shouldn't be about not having fun together.

7. Being married shouldn't be about not having fun together.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

8. Aww!!! That's more like it!

8. Aww!!! That's more like it!u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

9. Exactly, don't make the same mistake twice.

9. Exactly, don't make the same mistake twice.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

One answer makes the whole thread feel a little more hopeful.

Speaking of wedding drama, this Reddit user refused to attend a friend’s wedding over unresolved conflict.

10. Aww, this is so mushy!

10. Aww, this is so mushy!u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

11. This is gold, people.

11. This is gold, people.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

12. You go, girl.

12. You go, girl.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

13. Yes, ma'am!

13. Yes, ma'am!u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

14. That's not a good way to live life.

14. That's not a good way to live life.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

Not every marriage story comes with a happy ending.

15. Yes, that's good criteria *cough cough*

15. Yes, that's good criteria *cough cough*u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

16. That's what most men want, sadly.

16. That's what most men want, sadly.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

17. Aww, this is refreshing!

17. Aww, this is refreshing!u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

This one sounds like a rare win.

18. Oohh... They look like they're so much in love!

18. Oohh... They look like they're so much in love!u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

19. Oh. Well, we might have a wee bit of a problem.

19. Oh. Well, we might have a wee bit of a problem.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

20. True, sometimes the pain isn't worth the reward.

20. True, sometimes the pain isn't worth the reward.u/_Just-a-sad-girl_

In Summary...

It's crazy what marriage can do to your mental, physical, and emotional self. We've always heard the saying, "Two heads are better than one."

But it seems that when it comes to marriages, this saying doesn't hold true. It's sad that two people who love each other on the day they're married can lose all feelings for each other as time passes.

But it's no one's fault, honestly. Marriages are also about sacrifices and compromises, and it takes two to meet in the middle.

Anyway, would you marry the same person again if you could go back in time? Let us know in the comments!

Want more marriage tension? See the woman who sold the family home without her spouse’s consent.

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