20 Women Respond To A Question Asking Whether They Would Get Married Again If They Could Go Back In Time
You know the universal answer to this question, but let me explain.
Some marriages are easy to celebrate, and others leave people wondering what they would do differently the second time around.
That is exactly the mood in this Reddit thread, where one user asked married women whether they would get married again if they could go back in time.
What follows is a mix of regret, loyalty, and blunt honesty, and one comment in particular makes the whole thing feel a lot heavier. Read on.
1. I wish we had the backstory here.
2. I feel you, hun.
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That question hit a nerve right away.
4. Well, if it ain't broken...
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5. I know, a backstory would be helpful.
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6. Aww, this is just sad. The last part cracked me up.
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Some of these replies are sweet, and some are hard to read.
7. Being married shouldn't be about not having fun together.
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8. Aww!!! That's more like it!
9. Exactly, don't make the same mistake twice.
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One answer makes the whole thread feel a little more hopeful.
Speaking of wedding drama, this Reddit user refused to attend a friend’s wedding over unresolved conflict.
10. Aww, this is so mushy!
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11. This is gold, people.
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12. You go, girl.
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13. Yes, ma'am!
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14. That's not a good way to live life.
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Not every marriage story comes with a happy ending.
15. Yes, that's good criteria *cough cough*
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16. That's what most men want, sadly.
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17. Aww, this is refreshing!
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This one sounds like a rare win.
18. Oohh... They look like they're so much in love!
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19. Oh. Well, we might have a wee bit of a problem.
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20. True, sometimes the pain isn't worth the reward.
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In Summary...
It's crazy what marriage can do to your mental, physical, and emotional self. We've always heard the saying, "Two heads are better than one."
But it seems that when it comes to marriages, this saying doesn't hold true. It's sad that two people who love each other on the day they're married can lose all feelings for each other as time passes.
But it's no one's fault, honestly. Marriages are also about sacrifices and compromises, and it takes two to meet in the middle.
Anyway, would you marry the same person again if you could go back in time? Let us know in the comments!
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