People Share What Are The Most Annoying Things About Being A Guy And Their Statements Will Enlighten You
Men get real about everything that sucks about being a man, and their answers will help you sympathize with and understand them much better.
Some people still act like being a guy comes with fewer problems, but this Reddit thread shows how quickly that idea falls apart. Men deal with judgment about their looks, emotions, relationships, money, and even the most ordinary parts of daily life.
It all started when Reddit user u/justjuiced22 asked people to share the most annoying things about being a man. The responses came back fast, and they ranged from funny and relatable to blunt and surprisingly heavy.
Here’s what people said, and a few of the answers might hit closer to home than expected.
1. Unfortunately, we still need more good dads out there to make it a normal thing
thicchaggisboi2. That is a sad truth
JadedTrekkie3. Toxic masculinity affects everyone, not just the opposite sex
The_Unreal
That frustration shows up in more places than people admit.
4. Everyone deserves to feel good about themselves
Aneides
5. The world should realize by now that being a competent parent doesn't depend on gender
dyeson
6. Men expressing emotions doesn't make them less of a man
Agent527
7. Not all men leave the wedding day to their wives
bucketbiz9429
8. Abuse is abuse. Trauma is trauma.
Constant_Alternative
Some of these replies get very personal, very fast.
9. There is nothing wrong with a man carrying a bag
x_Pyro
10. That alpha male mentality is actually one of the worst
DoorNo_5
11. There isn't a correct way to be a man or a human being, for that matter. You're great just the way you are.
FerminFermin115
12. That is just nasty
gyroggg
13. Screw what they say
Mr_Gibus
14. Can't they just enjoy the company of the opposite sex because they genuinely like it?
Xsendox
15. Louder for the back!
Kooba9
16. These days, shopping is basically not tailored for men
imalonleyguytbh
17. Everyone needs help once in a while
tastehbacon
That kind of pressure gets old in a hurry.
Also see the Redditor asking if they were wrong for not paying more for their struggling sister’s bills.
18. It's exhausting
smarmageddon
19. When will people understand that emotion does not equal weakness?
ExoticStories
20. These are all basic human responsibilities, not just men's responsibilities
Neptune-Jr
21. Financial stability is important, but it's not the only thing that counts
green_meklar
22. The stereotype shouldn't dictate everything
BlacktheMew
23. We're not in the old days anymore
dailydonuts16
24. Their concern is understandably valid, but it does suck, especially when you've taken every precaution to show them you have no harmful intentions
Al-cicada
And then there are the replies that are just plain relatable.
25. If only the brain could control it better
NastyLittleBagginses
26. The body positivity revolution should be for everyone
Michael_Scarn427
27. It honestly hits men's confidence really hard
GiacchinoFrost
28. Everyone has a right to remain alive, right?
GiveMeYerBelt
29. It's how you carry it that counts
sd_glokta
30. It's a freaking dangerous task!
L4chie
Nowadays, everyone has something to say about everything. Whether it’s about looks, finances, ability to attract partners, or whatnot, someone will have something to say that can sprout negativity, and men deal with a lot of that.
What the rest of us can do is listen and help them feel more comfortable talking about these issues. What do you think about it?
These complaints are funny until you realize how familiar they are.
Before you judge the bill split, read how the sole breadwinner debated changing it.