30 Times Millennial Homeowners Shared Their Struggles Before Purchasing a Home, and the Posts Are Eye-Opening

The American dream is to purchase a house, but how possible is that for millennials?

Millennials have spent years hearing that homeownership is the goal, but for many, the math has never cooperated. Rising prices, closing costs, and down payments have turned a basic milestone into a major obstacle.

That tension is exactly what sparked this thread, after Twitter user Josh Kruger asked homeowners how they managed to cover the upfront costs of buying a house. He also shared that his own purchase was possible because of life insurance policies his father had quietly kept in place for him.

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The replies show just how many different paths people take to get the keys, and how much luck, family help, and timing can shape the outcome. Some of them are pretty surprising.

1. Buy a 2-4 unit building

1. Buy a 2-4 unit buildingmrjeffhead
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2. Followed by this...

2. Followed by this...@JoshKrugerPHL
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3. Stay out of expensive metros

3. Stay out of expensive metrosBeezyManzell

4. I was able to manage the savings involved

4. I was able to manage the savings involvedM_Hargrove

5. Got mine through a first-time homeowners program

5. Got mine through a first-time homeowners programGuavah_Go

6. We don't shy away from that fact

6. We don't shy away from that factmskelleyware

7. Stock from one of my first jobs

7. Stock from one of my first jobsdennisnahas

8. It gets pretty intense

8. It gets pretty intenseSFDenyse

9. We emptied our savings along with other resources

9. We emptied our savings along with other resourcesjanakg5

10. My wife and I were able to save up

10. My wife and I were able to save upmrncorbett

11. The calculations are endless

11. The calculations are endlessimchristiepitts

12. Saved up for the down payment

12. Saved up for the down paymentFinFanTragedy

13. My company's stock price exploded over the years

13. My company's stock price exploded over the yearserich_owens

14. Look into the NACA program

14. Look into the NACA programAtCarrieG

15. Through a first-time homebuyers program

15. Through a first-time homebuyers programE_Fish

Read the OP considering a solo decision.

16. From a 401(k) loan

16. From a 401(k) loanKHJ_Esq

17. Made it possible without outside help

17. Made it possible without outside helpPhDBee

18. Mine was 100% generational wealth

18. Mine was 100% generational wealthJulephenia

19. From the original thread writer himself

19. From the original thread writer himselfJoshKrugerPHL

20. Bought a fixer-upper

20. Bought a fixer-upperSCWKorsgaard

21. Here's my own story

21. Here's my own storyjefgodesky

22. We qualified for a low-income grant

22. We qualified for a low-income grantRandyLoBasso

23. The starting thread

23. The starting thread@JoshKrugerPHL

24. Such a touching story

24. Such a touching storynienna121

25. Almost everybody had a little help

25. Almost everybody had a little helpCrystalMarieCom

26. My parents gave us a down payment gift

26. My parents gave us a down payment giftThe_Same_Device

27. Got a full-time job for $20 an hour

27. Got a full-time job for $20 an hourspeakwright

28. I was my dad's life insurance policy beneficiary

28. I was my dad's life insurance policy beneficiarybabbymd

29. We'd be priced out forever

29. We'd be priced out foreverRMWhaley

30. My wife and I were able to save up

30. My wife and I were able to save upAngststern

31. Bought a home in Ypsilanti

31. Bought a home in Ypsilanticathey__amber

32. Purchased mine with my parents' support

32. Purchased mine with my parents' supportChemistTom

Truth be told, particularly in this uncertain economy, not many millennials have the funds to afford a house. It is only under extremely exceptional conditions that you see a millennial who owns a home, and they might acquire it through various means such as stocks from school, inheritance, etc.

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