This Woman Showed Her Husband a Nasty Text She Received from His Mother, and All Hell Broke Loose
"You finally trapped our son, and you want to use the baby as a pawn."
A family dinner turned into a full-blown mess after one woman showed her husband a nasty text from his mother, and the fallout spread fast.
Reddit user u/throwaway-text2 said she has never had a good relationship with her mother-in-law, and things got worse when she skipped eating food at a recent gathering because she was feeling unwell.
Now the couple is dealing with angry relatives, a hospital visit, and a marriage under strain. The family dinner did not end well.
You can read the story in full below.
Reddit/throwaway-text2The mother-in-law accused u/throwaway-text2 of being "passive-aggressive." She even went as far as to insult the OP's appearance.
Reddit/throwaway-text2So, when the OP's husband read his mother's cruel words, understandably, he wasn't happy.
When the OP's husband confronted his mother, she fainted and was taken to the hospital. Now, u/throwaway-text2 is bearing the blame for the entire situation.
Reddit/throwaway-text2
So, the OP asked the Reddit community for advice. She wanted to know if she was the a-hole in this situation.
Reddit/throwaway-text2
Here's how people reacted.
Reddit/Foreign_Negotiation7
"Mom caused this situation."
Reddit/Obtuse-Angel
"What a good husband!"
Reddit/darknessraynes
"How ridiculous."
Reddit/RNwashington
Faker!
Reddit/Orange_Paisley
"She is cruel."
Reddit/Dashcamkitty
This is messy like the AITA where a sister-in-law was asked to leave after insulting cooking.
"It's actually quite normal."
Reddit/turtlezrfun
"Give him space to grieve."
Reddit/Srhaddix
It's manipulation!
Reddit/Karmapoliceasleep
"She did this to herself."
Reddit/OokiiStaR
It's a ploy!
Reddit/Theunpolitical
"They don't just faint."
Reddit/the1whozusernamed
It's an act!
Reddit/Adventurous_Froyo862
"A victim complex."
Reddit/Anianna
Drama queen!
Reddit/LurkingOakleaf
"It was smart to show the message to your husband."
Reddit/VespertineStars
"You have to put your foot down."
Reddit/xKaileo
"IDK!"
Reddit/gaycousin13
It must be her age.
Reddit/HistoricallyLurking
"Diabetes doesn't make you faint when you don't get your way."
Reddit/HottyBoomBotty
So, the overall consensus here is that the OP is not the a-hole! But did we really think the answer would be any different?
Some of the comments in that message were nothing short of vicious! By being so disrespectful to her daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is also disrespecting her son.
As for the fainting? Well, we're no experts, but it seems that blaming it on diabetes may be a little far-fetched.
Family relationships can be difficult at the best of times, but it takes everyone involved to make them work. There is no place for aggression or cruelty within a family, no matter the circumstances.
What's your take on u/throwaway-text2's situation? Let us know in the comments section.
Before you judge u/throwaway-text2, read how one meddling mother-in-law sparked a divorce over boundaries.