25 Things We Do That Feel So Embarrassing But Are Actually Just Normal And Boring

As humans, we experience a wide range of emotions from the very moment we set foot in this world until now, as we strive to be fully functional and productive adults. Most of us want to feel positive emotions and would absolutely cringe when faced with feelings other than happiness and relief.

It's understandable, though, because who would want to feel grief, disgust, fear, anger, and embarrassment constantly? These emotions consume too much of our energy, and in a world where we are always expected to be on the move, it's easy to see why people avoid them.

However, each person has very different triggers; what angers some may only sadden others, and what some find disgusting, others may find fascinating. But if there is one thing that most people would agree on, it's that there are certain moments or experiences in life that feel incredibly embarrassing or humiliating—even if those moments or experiences can be considered normal if we just stop being cowards about them.

We're sensitive beings, and there are things we tend to overthink, making an experience far more embarrassing than it should be. That being said, when someone asked, “What is something that feels embarrassing to do, but shouldn’t feel that way because there’s nothing wrong with it?” in the Bored Panda community, people were quick to share their sentiments on this topic.

Check out some of the best responses below!

1. "Public speaking"

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2. "Leaking on a period."

Sure, it’s annoying and uncomfortable, but it’s not like it was a choice.Bored Panda

3. "Admitting you have severe depression and need to take meds and have therapy to avoid harming yourself."

I was told I was “damaged goods” because of my illness.Bored Panda

4. "Talking about feminine topics in front of my dad."

Example: periods, bras, pads, etc.Bored Panda

5. "Talking about money."

I was invited on a girl’s trip and had to say no because I couldn’t come up with cash in the short amount of time needed to book the trip. My friend said that I embarrassed her by telling the other girls that I couldn’t afford it.Bored Panda

6. "Doing number two in a public washroom."

The sounds are one reason why I choose home.Bored Panda

7. "Being hungry at a friend’s house..."

Or having your host offer you something and saying yes. WHY DOES IT SEEM SO RUDE AND EMBARRASSING!? HahaBored Panda

8. "Asking for help more than once in class."

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9. "Coming out."

I know it is a little embarrassing, but I swear I almost died of embarrassment.Bored Panda

10. "Buying contraceptives."

And basically any other sexual wellness products in a physical store.Bored Panda

11. "Stretch marks."

Body hair, or lack thereof. Breast size. Penis size. Mental illness. Starting your life at 40 instead of 16. Niche interests. So many things…Bored Panda

12. "Practicing any instrument you are learning at home around family."

You don’t know how to play very well, which is why you need to learn and practice, but you feel dumb struggling through easy songs with people who can hear you.Bored Panda

13. "Going to a sex shop."

And generally, everything related to sex is seen as vulgar and a complete taboo.Bored Panda

14. "Going to a shop and walking out without buying anything."

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15. "When you're talking to someone and they correct you because you got something wrong."

Even if it's just the pronunciation of a random word, I always feel so ashamed, and I don’t know why.

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16. "Being in a deadly silent bathroom..."

"Where you know some of the other stalls are occupied and trying to quietly change pads without everyone knowing what you’re doing."Bored Panda

17. "Getting out of the pool. It’s just so awkward."

And also when you're crouching in the shallow end and someone says, “You could just stand, you know.” LIKE YEAH, I KNOW, I’M JUST INSECURE.Bored Panda

18. "When a car stops to let you cross the street?"

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19. "Being overweight and going to the gym."

I’ve actually stopped completely… I just work out at home. The stares and snickering were too much to deal with when I’m just trying to work out.Bored Panda

20. "When you have to run to catch the bus, and you’re out of breath."

And you start breathing heavily on the bus. I don’t know why, but this just seems too embarrassing to me.Bored Panda, Jen

21. "Mispronouncing words, grammar mistakes, and word choice while learning a new language."

It’s way less tragic than it feels, and most native speakers butcher their own language routinely.Bored Panda

22. "Opening a gift—expectations of my reaction."

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23. "A giant zit on your cheek that makeup won’t even begin to cover."

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24. "Eating alone at a restaurant, especially fancy ones."

People always talk about treating yourself and taking yourself out on dates, but when you actually go to a restaurant alone, the vibe isn’t always the same.Bored Panda

25. "Singing in front of other people."

I know lots of other people do it, but it just makes me feel really exposed and awkward.Bored Panda

The feeling of embarrassment comes in many forms, and there is no guarantee that we will always be able to avoid it—because that's just how we are! It's human nature to feel humiliated, and that's perfectly okay because, at the end of the day, who cares anyway except for us?

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