Man In Shock After Discovering What His Wife Truly Feels About Him Through Her Reddit Posts

Surprises are one thing that we can’t avoid in our lives.

One borrowed laptop turned into a relationship wake-up call no one would want. A Reddit user known as u/[deleted] opened his wife’s computer for a presentation and ended up finding her signed into Reddit, which led him straight into posts he was never meant to see.

He had been hoping for something playful, but instead he found harsh comments about himself and a painful picture of how his wife really felt. The situation got even more complicated because he was already dealing with serious mental health struggles, and their marriage had been under strain for a while.

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What he saw pushed the couple toward a difficult conversation, and the fallout did not stop there. Read on.

And the headline...

And the headline...u/[deleted]
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Borrowed my wife's laptop

Borrowed my wife's laptopu/[deleted
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Here's a little backstory

Here's a little backstoryu/[deleted

Back to my TIFU

Back to my TIFUu/[deleted

We make up and all is well

We make up and all is wellu/[deleted

Then I look at her comments

Then I look at her commentsu/[deleted

She doesn't enjoy our sex life

She doesn't enjoy our sex lifeu/[deleted

I plan to talk it out with her

I plan to talk it out with heru/[deleted

Just to summarize everything

Just to summarize everythingu/[deleted]

The Reddit post garnered quite a bit of attention, receiving 28.5K upvotes along with more than 2K comments. Below are some of the most upvoted comments from what people had to say!

This comment section wasted no time picking sides.

1. It will be another waiting disaster, I guess

1. It will be another waiting disaster, I guessu/TSCCaillou

2. Don't turn to internet strangers for half-baked advice

2. Don't turn to internet strangers for half-baked adviceu/NoCreativeName2016

3. I guess we'll never truly know

3. I guess we'll never truly knowu/minecraft69wastaken

This also matches the anniversary dinner blowup, where someone confronted their partner about a shocking secret.

4. Bad treatment builds up

4. Bad treatment builds upu/sillyciban1

5. There are two possibilities here

5. There are two possibilities hereu/sterlingrose

6. Counseling can be a good start for both of you

6. Counseling can be a good start for both of youu/Archior

7. I'm so sorry to hear that

7. I'm so sorry to hear thatu/AgentAle47

8. I'm asking the very same question

8. I'm asking the very same questionu/Zealousideal_Gas_608

9. This particular statement really stood out

9. This particular statement really stood outu/uncreative123pi4

10. Another good point to note down

10. Another good point to note downu/Libran

11. It's possible to get through this

11. It's possible to get through thisu/finetobacconyc

12. Lol... If you put it this way

12. Lol... If you put it this wayu/MaliqGotTheHeat

13. Emotions unleashed online can be much harsher than reality

13. Emotions unleashed online can be much harsher than realityu/Few-Concert-436

14. If she's sincere, then I'm sorry

14. If she's sincere, then I'm sorryu/issac2209

15. This is best moderated by a therapist

15. This is best moderated by a therapistu/asiandaria

16. If you look for something, you'll find it

16. If you look for something, you'll find itu/Digital_Pharmacist

17. This is another perspective to consider

17. This is another perspective to consideru/AileenKitten

18. An interesting relationship indeed

18. An interesting relationship indeedu/GavinIsAFox

19. You have to talk about these things

19. You have to talk about these thingsu/johansugarev

20. I'm here trying to understand

20. I'm here trying to understandu/Greanbean18

21. Snooping on her account to find nudes

21. Snooping on her account to find nudesu/siriusbrown

22. Not a true reflection, buddy

22. Not a true reflection, buddyu/zanderkingofzand

23. You have to love yourself first

23. You have to love yourself firstu/Yannikin

It's not bad for someone to learn something new about their partner, but when what you discover is so heartbreaking, what would you do? People tend to bottle up their true emotions.

Some express them to your face, while others unleash them on strangers on the internet. Regardless of how you learn about them, what you do next is entirely up to you.

Now he's left wondering what comes next.

Want more Reddit-fueled fallout, see how a hidden addiction confession turned into AITA backlash.

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