Man In Shock After Discovering What His Wife Truly Feels About Him Through Her Reddit Posts

Surprises are one thing that we can’t avoid in our lives.

Surprises are one thing that we can’t avoid in our lives, and I don’t mean gift surprises. I’m talking about life surprises — surprises that may either brighten your day or shake you to your core, but hey, no one prays for the latter.

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In today’s story, a Redditor named u/[deleted] learned something heartbreaking that his wife had hidden from him. He took to the TIFU subreddit community to share his experience, explaining that he borrowed his wife’s laptop for a presentation but found her signed into Reddit when he opened Chrome.

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The OP became curious and hoped “to find some nudes that we could use later to try and spice things up,” but unfortunately, he stumbled upon something far worse. To help the community understand his situation, the OP provided a little backstory, confessing that he is facing “serious mental health challenges” and that his depression has recently worsened.

This was also draining his wife, which she had communicated to him, and the OP has since been striving to improve. Now, back to what the OP discovered – he saw a post his wife made in which she used harsh words to describe him.

He did get upset, which his wife later noticed and asked about. He truthfully responded, and they found themselves attending couples therapy.

But did it end there? Find out as you keep scrolling.

And the headline...

And the headline...u/[deleted]
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Borrowed my wife's laptop

Borrowed my wife's laptopu/[deleted
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Here's a little backstory

Here's a little backstoryu/[deleted

Back to my TIFU

Back to my TIFUu/[deleted

We make up and all is well

We make up and all is wellu/[deleted

Then I look at her comments

Then I look at her commentsu/[deleted

She doesn't enjoy our sex life

She doesn't enjoy our sex lifeu/[deleted

I plan to talk it out with her

I plan to talk it out with heru/[deleted

Just to summarize everything

Just to summarize everythingu/[deleted]

The Reddit post garnered quite a bit of attention, receiving 28.5K upvotes along with more than 2K comments. Below are some of the most upvoted comments from what people had to say!

1. It will be another waiting disaster, I guess

1. It will be another waiting disaster, I guessu/TSCCaillou

2. Don't turn to internet strangers for half-baked advice

2. Don't turn to internet strangers for half-baked adviceu/NoCreativeName2016

3. I guess we'll never truly know

3. I guess we'll never truly knowu/minecraft69wastaken

4. Bad treatment builds up

4. Bad treatment builds upu/sillyciban1

5. There are two possibilities here

5. There are two possibilities hereu/sterlingrose

6. Counseling can be a good start for both of you

6. Counseling can be a good start for both of youu/Archior

7. I'm so sorry to hear that

7. I'm so sorry to hear thatu/AgentAle47

8. I'm asking the very same question

8. I'm asking the very same questionu/Zealousideal_Gas_608

9. This particular statement really stood out

9. This particular statement really stood outu/uncreative123pi4

10. Another good point to note down

10. Another good point to note downu/Libran

11. It's possible to get through this

11. It's possible to get through thisu/finetobacconyc

12. Lol... If you put it this way

12. Lol... If you put it this wayu/MaliqGotTheHeat

13. Emotions unleashed online can be much harsher than reality

13. Emotions unleashed online can be much harsher than realityu/Few-Concert-436

14. If she's sincere, then I'm sorry

14. If she's sincere, then I'm sorryu/issac2209

15. This is best moderated by a therapist

15. This is best moderated by a therapistu/asiandaria

16. If you look for something, you'll find it

16. If you look for something, you'll find itu/Digital_Pharmacist

17. This is another perspective to consider

17. This is another perspective to consideru/AileenKitten

18. An interesting relationship indeed

18. An interesting relationship indeedu/GavinIsAFox

19. You have to talk about these things

19. You have to talk about these thingsu/johansugarev

20. I'm here trying to understand

20. I'm here trying to understandu/Greanbean18

21. Snooping on her account to find nudes

21. Snooping on her account to find nudesu/siriusbrown

22. Not a true reflection, buddy

22. Not a true reflection, buddyu/zanderkingofzand

23. You have to love yourself first

23. You have to love yourself firstu/Yannikin

It's not bad for someone to learn something new about their partner, but when what you discover is so heartbreaking, what would you do? People tend to bottle up their true emotions.

Some express them to your face, while others unleash them on strangers on the internet. Regardless of how you learn about them, what you do next is entirely up to you.

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