Man In Shock After Discovering What His Wife Truly Feels About Him Through Her Reddit Posts
Surprises are one thing that we can’t avoid in our lives.
Surprises are one thing that we can’t avoid in our lives, and I don’t mean gift surprises. I’m talking about life surprises — surprises that may either brighten your day or shake you to your core, but hey, no one prays for the latter.
In today’s story, a Redditor named u/[deleted] learned something heartbreaking that his wife had hidden from him. He took to the TIFU subreddit community to share his experience, explaining that he borrowed his wife’s laptop for a presentation but found her signed into Reddit when he opened Chrome.
The OP became curious and hoped “to find some nudes that we could use later to try and spice things up,” but unfortunately, he stumbled upon something far worse. To help the community understand his situation, the OP provided a little backstory, confessing that he is facing “serious mental health challenges” and that his depression has recently worsened.
This was also draining his wife, which she had communicated to him, and the OP has since been striving to improve. Now, back to what the OP discovered – he saw a post his wife made in which she used harsh words to describe him.
He did get upset, which his wife later noticed and asked about. He truthfully responded, and they found themselves attending couples therapy.
But did it end there? Find out as you keep scrolling.
And the headline...
u/[deleted]Borrowed my wife's laptop
u/[deletedHere's a little backstory
u/[deleted
Back to my TIFU
u/[deleted
We make up and all is well
u/[deleted
Then I look at her comments
u/[deleted
She doesn't enjoy our sex life
u/[deleted
I plan to talk it out with her
u/[deleted
Just to summarize everything
u/[deleted]
The Reddit post garnered quite a bit of attention, receiving 28.5K upvotes along with more than 2K comments. Below are some of the most upvoted comments from what people had to say!
1. It will be another waiting disaster, I guess
u/TSCCaillou
2. Don't turn to internet strangers for half-baked advice
u/NoCreativeName2016
3. I guess we'll never truly know
u/minecraft69wastaken
4. Bad treatment builds up
u/sillyciban1
5. There are two possibilities here
u/sterlingrose
6. Counseling can be a good start for both of you
u/Archior
7. I'm so sorry to hear that
u/AgentAle47
8. I'm asking the very same question
u/Zealousideal_Gas_608
9. This particular statement really stood out
u/uncreative123pi4
10. Another good point to note down
u/Libran
11. It's possible to get through this
u/finetobacconyc
12. Lol... If you put it this way
u/MaliqGotTheHeat
13. Emotions unleashed online can be much harsher than reality
u/Few-Concert-436
14. If she's sincere, then I'm sorry
u/issac2209
15. This is best moderated by a therapist
u/asiandaria
16. If you look for something, you'll find it
u/Digital_Pharmacist
17. This is another perspective to consider
u/AileenKitten
18. An interesting relationship indeed
u/GavinIsAFox
19. You have to talk about these things
u/johansugarev
20. I'm here trying to understand
u/Greanbean18
21. Snooping on her account to find nudes
u/siriusbrown
22. Not a true reflection, buddy
u/zanderkingofzand
23. You have to love yourself first
u/Yannikin
It's not bad for someone to learn something new about their partner, but when what you discover is so heartbreaking, what would you do? People tend to bottle up their true emotions.
Some express them to your face, while others unleash them on strangers on the internet. Regardless of how you learn about them, what you do next is entirely up to you.