10 People Reveal Subtle Red Flags That Pop Up Early In Relationships You Should Take More Seriously
Noticing red flags can be difficult when you're in the moment, but don't worry because these people have you covered with red flags to watch out for.
Some relationship red flags are loud, but the sneaky ones can be even more revealing. A small habit, a weird comment, or a little bit of disrespect can say a lot before things get serious.
That is the idea behind this roundup, which pulls together ten subtle warning signs people say they have learned to notice early in dating. The examples range from loyalty issues to rude behavior, and each one comes from people sharing what has stood out to them over time.
Lauren Chanel kicked off the conversation on Twitter, and the responses came in fast. A few of them are funny, a few are blunt, and some are hard to ignore.
1. Loyalty
Loyalty is something that's a two-way street, and sometimes those who emphasize how important loyalty is may not be the loyal ones.
Just be careful with whom you trust.
ellmcgirt2. Kid-hating
Those who dislike kids can certainly have their feelings, but expressing it out loud to someone is a whole different story.
Additionally, if you want kids yourself, then this isn't someone you want to be with.
clhubes3. Animal Hating
People who hate animals can't have that big of a heart if they don't even love innocent creatures.
If you find someone who doesn't like any animals, it may be wise to steer clear of them.
cmpriest
4. Victim Complex
A victim complex is easy for humans to adopt because we are selfish by nature, but if someone constantly plays the victim, then it could definitely be a red flag to pay attention to.
cmvsal
5. Blessings
If you're not a religious person, then you might find this one to be a red flag. Sometimes people mean nothing by it, but other times it may feel like they're forcing it on you.
BettyBowers
6. Shopping Cart Negligence
Returning your shopping cart is the easiest thing to do, yet some people still don't do it. You can gauge someone's character and their willingness to do "the little things" by whether they return their cart or not.
PeterAstridKane
7. Friend Exclusion
Would it bother you if you knew a woman who didn't have any female friends? I mean, why don't they have female friends?
Also, if you're a male dating a female who doesn't have female friends, then you can assume that she only has male friends, but again, why?
WarmestRegards
8. Ride or Die
Ride or die type of relationships are not always glorious. If someone wants a ride or die partner, then there will most likely be instances where you may have to ride or die.
That type of life may not be what you want, but if it is, then go for it.
Juva881
9. Rudeness to Wait Staff
If you're rude to the wait staff, then we can assume you've never worked as a waiter or in a similar role. Overall, this will definitely reveal how someone truly is.
Especially if you have been part of the wait staff before, you should not be rude to them. You can really tell how someone is by the way they treat strangers.
HelenKennedy
10. “Fiscal Conservative”
Sometimes politics can be tricky when it comes to relationships because people can be very right or very left. If you're not into politics, then either way, this might be a red flag for you.
Politics is such a touchy subject, but do you think this is an accurate red flag to look out for?
jordanzakarin
These ten red flags are definitely something to look out for. Some might be more significant red flags than others, but they are all worth watching for.
Do you have any red flags that could be added to this list for people to watch out for?
Before you trust a “loyal” partner, read the AITA about hesitating for pet adoption.
