6 Golden Rules That Every Married Couple Should Follow for a Healthy Lifelong Marriage

Let's settle it once and for all: relationships are never easy work, and there is never an easy way out. No matter what kind of relationship status you are in right now, it is always true that relationships require work, dedication, and a heap of understanding.

A healthy and long-lasting relationship is all about maintaining a certain equilibrium between you and your significant other. When things get a little rocky, it can be necessary to remember the reasons why you ended up together in the first place—especially love, among other things.

They often seem hard and difficult to maintain, so it is up to us to put in the effort to keep the relationship with our significant other going and functioning healthily. Relationships can never thrive passively unless both parties are willing to work on them daily, which means both sides should always be willing to accommodate their partner's feelings.

That being said, Ryan Stephens, a business strategist and writer, took to Twitter to share a set of six golden rules that he believes are the most important things every couple should know for managing their relationship and marriage. He emphasizes that couples should work as teammates rather than soulmates because there is a difference between the two.

Relationships are never easy, but it is not impossible to work on your differences to make it healthy.

Even if you fall under the "opposites attract" trope, there is still hope.

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Stephens discovered these six rules when he and his wife realized that keeping in mind that they are part of the same team in their marriage was key to its success. Being "soulmates" has nothing to do with this.

This led him to share with the Twitter community the six rules that he and his wife try to follow to ensure their marriage is happy and long-lasting.

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In the thread, he elaborates on each rule in individual tweets. They primarily focus on essential factors such as interpersonal communication, respect, and unwavering support for one another.

1. No one should ever hear anything bad about your spouse from you.

While it might be one thing to joke about your partner's quirks with your friends, it's never acceptable to badmouth your spouse to them, no matter how annoying some of their behaviors may be. It's never cool to degrade your spouse or use them as a laughingstock.

Instead, spend your time understanding why they are the way they are and appreciate them for trying. If this behavior gets out of hand, it can lead to passive-aggressiveness or unhealthy competition.

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2. Over-communicate because you cannot read each other's minds.

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3. Try new things together.

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4. Celebrate each other's wins and encourage one another.

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5. Appreciate each other's contributions and never keep score.

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6. Trust and respect each other, whether you are alone or in front of others.

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It's about working together, above all.

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The post went viral, and the people of Twitter chimed in with their own contributions on the topic.

Be careful with labels.

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Be each other's top cheerleaders!

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Don't rely solely on that soulmate talk because, at the end of the day, you both need to work on it.

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It's perfectly normal to love someone but not like them at all times.

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The situation is different when you are in an abusive relationship, though. Seek help.

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Don't stop trying to be better, not only for each other but also for yourself.

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Never, ever underestimate the power of love.

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Always find ways to keep the fire burning.

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Be each other's peace!

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Works for any relationship.

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It all boils down to being nice and considerate to each other.

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If you love them, it's already worth everything.

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Go through the changes together.

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Relationships, whether before, during, or after marriage, will always be messy, but you should be able to look past the challenges if you still love your partner. While it may be easy to get riled up because of life's stresses, it is also important to keep your relationship a safe space for both you and your significant other.

What do you think? Comment with your thoughts or share this with all the couples—married or not—that you know!