This Lady Was Shamed By Her BIL For Having Hairy Legs, But Her Response Was Ice Cold

That moment when your clapback is so deep that it leaves the other person in disbelief.

One family dinner turned awkward fast when a woman’s brother-in-law decided to comment on her body out loud. What started as a simple seating arrangement at her parents’ house ended with a sharp comeback, a stunned table, and a sister who was furious about the whole thing.

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The woman was sitting beside her sister’s husband when her skirt rode up and exposed her hairy legs. He mocked her for not shaving, and she fired back with a remark about his mustache that sent the dinner off the rails. Now the family is split over who crossed the line first.

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The reaction was immediate, and it only got messier from there. Read on.

The author's sister and her brother-in-law came with their children for dinner at her parent's house

The author's sister and her brother-in-law came with their children for dinner at her parent's houseu/hortenhearsawho1
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When her brother-in-law caught a glimpse of her hairy legs, he shamed her for not shaving them

When her brother-in-law caught a glimpse of her hairy legs, he shamed her for not shaving themu/hortenhearsawho1
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The author responded by taking a shot at his mustache

The author responded by taking a shot at his mustacheu/hortenhearsawho1

The comment apparently hit him hard, causing him to leave the dining table

The comment apparently hit him hard, causing him to leave the dining tableu/hortenhearsawho1

The author's sister followed her husband into the bathroom, where he started questioning her about the state of his mustache

The author's sister followed her husband into the bathroom, where he started questioning her about the state of his mustacheu/hortenhearsawho1

Her sister didn't take it lightly, as she felt that the author had gone too far

Her sister didn't take it lightly, as she felt that the author had gone too faru/hortenhearsawho1

From the sister's point of view, the author psychologically harmed her husband with that comment

From the sister's point of view, the author psychologically harmed her husband with that commentu/hortenhearsawho1

The story went viral, garnering over 22k upvotes and 2k comments. Here’s how people reacted:

People were quick to pick a side.

"I bet his mustache looks ridiculous"

"I bet his mustache looks ridiculous"chaosandpuppies

"I envisioned one of those tiny, needle-thin mustaches"

"I envisioned one of those tiny, needle-thin mustaches"Ok_Character7958

"Why was he staring at OP’s legs so closely while sitting down to dinner anyway?"

"Why was he staring at OP’s legs so closely while sitting down to dinner anyway?"kajamae

He definitely shouldn't be commenting on people's appearance if he's so sensitive

He definitely shouldn't be commenting on people's appearance if he's so sensitiveQuackLikeMe

"Your husband shouldn't dish it out if he can't take it back"

"Your husband shouldn't dish it out if he can't take it back"gigibuffoon

More commenters had a few words for the sister, too.

It also echoes an AITA fight over refusing to share the secret recipe with sisters new partner.

Some words for OP's sister

Some words for OP's sisterShesASatellite

"Next time they come over, everyone should put on fake mustaches."

"Next time they come over, everyone should put on fake mustaches."Ducky818

"If your legs were under the table, he'd really have to have been checking you out to notice"

"If your legs were under the table, he'd really have to have been checking you out to notice"Juliennix

"Is this dude a cop by chance?"

"Is this dude a cop by chance?"Low-Necessary-7659

"We don’t point out things people can’t change about their appearance in 15 seconds"

"We don’t point out things people can’t change about their appearance in 15 seconds"LadyTheBlitzed

"Misogyny, body shaming, and general piggishness don’t get excused"

"Misogyny, body shaming, and general piggishness don’t get excused"Euphoric-Round-5182

"Oh, the fragility of masculinity when it can be removed with a razor in 10 minutes"

"Oh, the fragility of masculinity when it can be removed with a razor in 10 minutes"Personal_Sprinkles_3

"Society has weird assumptions about where to keep hair and where to remove it"

"Society has weird assumptions about where to keep hair and where to remove it"Apotheuncary

"Ask your sister why it is appropriate for a grown man to even be looking at your legs"

"Ask your sister why it is appropriate for a grown man to even be looking at your legs"Corduroycat1

No one should be made to feel ashamed of their body, regardless of what the other person's preference is.

We do hope that OP can find a way to resolve things with her sister. Family is everything, and communication is the first step to healing.

Want another family blow-up at the dinner table, read about asking your sister-in-law to leave after she insulted your cooking.

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