This Lady Had To Hide Her Soda Because Her Husband's Kids Take It From Her Office Without Permission

The joint family arrangement dates back to Vedic times and was typical even when rulers controlled this area. Living in a large family necessitates adjusting to uncles, aunts, and cousins.

Growing up with a diverse group of people, sacrificing your needs for the happiness of a loved one, and fighting over minor matters prepares you for life. However, there are various disadvantages to being in a joint family.

People who live in a joint family often complain about a lack of privacy. Another issue with living in a joint family is that even minor decisions must be approved by all family members, particularly the head of the family.

Living in a joint family can make it challenging to make the best decisions for your child. However, there are various advantages as well.

Everyone celebrates even minor accomplishments, and in times of adversity, your family is always there to support you.

A child raised in a large family is more social, but he also develops a habit of sharing. Growing up in a joint family instills the practice of sharing.

A child's education is not limited to academics and school when he lives with aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. Instead, his education has a much broader scope.

But this Reddit user vents about being in a joint family because every time he gets a pack of soda for himself, his brother and his kids finish it off without even asking him. The only solution he found was to start hiding his drinks and other food items from them.

Not really; it's fine to do these little selfish things when living in a joint family.

u/mountaindewdilemma

It is very well justified, especially when you don't get something that you buy for yourself.

Judgement_Bot_AITA

The brother feels soda is garbage and doesn't buy it for his kids but allows them to drink it when OP buys it.

Allaboutbird

OP's brother-in-law is a hypocrite, and he is just selfishly trying to save some money.

Music_withRocks_In

Clearly, no one seems to be respecting you, so you do the same and keep your things to yourself.

Unknown

They have taken OP for granted, and all the things she gets for herself are considered to be for everyone in the family.

LitRonSwanson

Yes, when the husband doesn't stand up for you, then you have to stand up for yourself.

f02f2e6fa0b3

Yes, it is a little evil to be going around policing the food, but it is quite justified in this case.

Prestigious-Name-323

When you are not being treated with respect, become the 'evil' person and enjoy it.

f02f2e6fa0b3

True, they are old enough to understand the value of money and not take free items from OP.

HighAFdragon

This seems like a perfect way to go about it.

1temptreddit2

The moment the kids see an open pack, be sure that everything will be missing soon.

Music_withRocks_In

If saving some for yourself means hiding it, then do it without a second thought!

Aggressive_Mood214

That is basically stealing right in front of the owner's eyes, and the owner is helpless and cannot say anything.

tubbyx7

We would like to hear this side of the story as well.

Ironsam811

The kids and everyone in the family lack courtesy.

hBoBh

That is exactly how it should be; everyone gets an equal share or at least a share.

gosh_golly_gee

The kids are old enough to understand the concept of 'sharing is caring.'

Additional_Builder55

Everyone earns for themselves and can share things, but at the cost of getting something for themselves too.

KittySnowpants

The husband does not seem to care about OP and her needs.

HonorInThievery

If the behavior continues, don't shy away from slamming the divorce papers in his face along with a box of soda.

c0ffeeandeggs

It was just a trick so the husband doesn't have to spend money when they can get it for free by stealing from OP's office.

Larcztar

It is not a good habit to take something someone else has brought, especially without permission. It shows a lack of manners and etiquette and sheds light on the person's upbringing.

Share this story with all your friends and family and encourage them to work hard and buy things independently. You can always ask someone to borrow things, but promise to return them.