Redditors Descend On Man Who Refused To Walk His Daughter Down The Aisle Because She Didn’t Ask First
There’s a lot that goes into planning a wedding, not to mention all the family dramas, and here's one.
Weddings are beautiful occasions, and they are a significant event for the couple who are becoming tied together for life. Every bride would love for her dad to be the one to walk her down the aisle and hand her over to her spouse, but what happens when your dad refuses to oblige that request?
Well, that is exactly what this Redditor named u/throw_dad7755 did to his own daughter. He became confused about his decision along the way and decided to share his story with the AITA subreddit community to get their verdict.
According to the story, the OP has two daughters: one is his biological daughter, Marie, who lives with his ex-wife, and the other is his present wife’s daughter, Julie, who is his stepdaughter. The OP helped raise Julie as his own daughter, so when it was time for her to get married, she asked him to walk her down the aisle, which he gladly accepted.
Then he received a call from Marie, and they hung out. During their time together, Marie told him that she was pregnant and would soon be getting married, so he had to walk her down the aisle, to which the OP said he’d think about it.
When he told his family about it, they asked the OP to tell his daughter to wait because Julie wanted to be walked down the aisle first. Did the OP do as he was told?
Find out as you keep scrolling to read the full story.
Refused walking my daughter down the aisle
Just for the context
u/throw_dad7755With that being said...
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Now to the issue proper
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She asked that I walk her down the aisle
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Let me think about it first
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I then sent a message
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And she called me crying
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Word has spread to some family members
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The post has more than 13K upvotes and 4K comments. Below are some of the most upvoted ones:
1. Who cares whose wedding comes first?
u/AngryKami
2. Go on and walk your daughter down the aisle
u/Lilliekins
3. Grow a spine and learn how to be a father
u/Ok_Beginning5610
4. And he's heading down there, I guess
u/notamanonlydynamite
5. You made no effort to be connected
u/Significant_Fault725
6. It's the same as telling your daughter that you don't care
u/Cool-Clerk-9835
7. It does seem that he's been giving Julie the upper hand ever since
u/amydehp
8. You are her dad, so do your duty
u/justwanted2lurk
9. It'll take a lot to fix this mess
u/ohialehua
10. Tell your daughter to share and grow up
u/notmemeorme
11.
u/WhoSc3w3dDaP00ch
12. You ought to be more mature than this...
u/Serenity_Owl
13. A rude, greedy, and disrespectful decision
u/LCarver1869
14. They both will get married, so why all this?
u/NightNurse14
15. And an additional full stop to that
u/DefinitelySaneGary
16. You're an a**hole, and an a**hole is what you are
u/Giodesic-dome
17. It is not a competition, so don't make it one
u/Berry_goose
18. Parents who pick favorites and are open about it are gross
u/thewolfaria
19. At all...
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20. Repair the damage you've done
u/jim15243
21. A horrible, terrible father indeed
u/kayaker58
22. And for a very long time too
u/MsTyffani
23. I'm speechless as well
u/-rudebwoy
The OP later added an edit after discovering what a terrible dad he was to his daughter.
The edit...
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There’s a lot that goes into planning a wedding, not to mention all the family dramas that were sorted out before D-Day. When a wedding goes perfectly without any problems, the couple breathes a sigh of relief at the end of the day.
Anyways, do drop your thoughts about this story in the comments below.