Redditors Descend On Man Who Refused To Walk His Daughter Down The Aisle Because She Didn’t Ask First

There’s a lot that goes into planning a wedding, not to mention all the family dramas, and here's one.

Weddings are beautiful occasions, and they are a significant event for the couple who are becoming tied together for life. Every bride would love for her dad to be the one to walk her down the aisle and hand her over to her spouse, but what happens when your dad refuses to oblige that request?

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Well, that is exactly what this Redditor named u/throw_dad7755 did to his own daughter. He became confused about his decision along the way and decided to share his story with the AITA subreddit community to get their verdict.

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According to the story, the OP has two daughters: one is his biological daughter, Marie, who lives with his ex-wife, and the other is his present wife’s daughter, Julie, who is his stepdaughter. The OP helped raise Julie as his own daughter, so when it was time for her to get married, she asked him to walk her down the aisle, which he gladly accepted.

Then he received a call from Marie, and they hung out. During their time together, Marie told him that she was pregnant and would soon be getting married, so he had to walk her down the aisle, to which the OP said he’d think about it.

When he told his family about it, they asked the OP to tell his daughter to wait because Julie wanted to be walked down the aisle first. Did the OP do as he was told?

Find out as you keep scrolling to read the full story.

Refused walking my daughter down the aisle

Refused walking my daughter down the aisleu/throw_dad7755
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Just for the context

Just for the contextu/throw_dad7755
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With that being said...

With that being said...u/throw_dad7755

Now to the issue proper

Now to the issue properu/throw_dad7755

She asked that I walk her down the aisle

She asked that I walk her down the aisleu/throw_dad7755

Let me think about it first

Let me think about it firstu/throw_dad7755

I then sent a message

I then sent a messageu/throw_dad7755

And she called me crying

And she called me cryingu/throw_dad7755

Word has spread to some family members

Word has spread to some family membersu/throw_dad7755

The post has more than 13K upvotes and 4K comments. Below are some of the most upvoted ones:

1. Who cares whose wedding comes first?

1. Who cares whose wedding comes first?u/AngryKami

2. Go on and walk your daughter down the aisle

2. Go on and walk your daughter down the aisleu/Lilliekins

3. Grow a spine and learn how to be a father

3. Grow a spine and learn how to be a fatheru/Ok_Beginning5610

4. And he's heading down there, I guess

4. And he's heading down there, I guessu/notamanonlydynamite

5. You made no effort to be connected

5. You made no effort to be connectedu/Significant_Fault725

6. It's the same as telling your daughter that you don't care

6. It's the same as telling your daughter that you don't careu/Cool-Clerk-9835

7. It does seem that he's been giving Julie the upper hand ever since

7. It does seem that he's been giving Julie the upper hand ever sinceu/amydehp

8. You are her dad, so do your duty

8. You are her dad, so do your dutyu/justwanted2lurk

9. It'll take a lot to fix this mess

9. It'll take a lot to fix this messu/ohialehua

10. Tell your daughter to share and grow up

10. Tell your daughter to share and grow upu/notmemeorme

11.

11. u/WhoSc3w3dDaP00ch

12. You ought to be more mature than this...

12. You ought to be more mature than this...u/Serenity_Owl

13. A rude, greedy, and disrespectful decision

13. A rude, greedy, and disrespectful decisionu/LCarver1869

14. They both will get married, so why all this?

14. They both will get married, so why all this?u/NightNurse14

15. And an additional full stop to that

15. And an additional full stop to thatu/DefinitelySaneGary

16. You're an a**hole, and an a**hole is what you are

16. You're an a**hole, and an a**hole is what you areu/Giodesic-dome

17. It is not a competition, so don't make it one

17. It is not a competition, so don't make it oneu/Berry_goose

18. Parents who pick favorites and are open about it are gross

18. Parents who pick favorites and are open about it are grossu/thewolfaria

19. At all...

19. At all...[deleted]

20. Repair the damage you've done

20. Repair the damage you've doneu/jim15243

21. A horrible, terrible father indeed

21. A horrible, terrible father indeedu/kayaker58

22. And for a very long time too

22. And for a very long time toou/MsTyffani

23. I'm speechless as well

23. I'm speechless as wellu/-rudebwoy

The OP later added an edit after discovering what a terrible dad he was to his daughter.

The edit...

The edit...u/throw_dad7755

There’s a lot that goes into planning a wedding, not to mention all the family dramas that were sorted out before D-Day. When a wedding goes perfectly without any problems, the couple breathes a sigh of relief at the end of the day.

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