Girl Called Selfish Brat By Brother's Future Wife For Refusing To Babysit 40 Kids During Their Wedding

We live in a world where people expect you to do things for them simply because they want you to, and if you dare to refuse, they won't take no for an answer, turning you into the villain. It's almost as if these individuals believe the world constantly owes them favors and that people are merely tools to help them achieve their desires.

Sometimes, even your own family tries to manipulate you into doing things for them just because you're related, but when you need them, they vanish from the face of the earth. The trick is to leave no room for manipulation and stick to your principles; otherwise, you will find yourself constantly doing others' chores for them.

A Reddit user who goes by the username u/Maximum_Somewhere281 made a post on r/AmItheA***hole asking if she's in the wrong for "ruining" her brother's wedding. She explained how her brother's future wife insisted that she babysit 40 kids during the wedding with the help of her boyfriend, giving her no real choices.

Scroll down to check out the full Reddit post, and if you scroll a little further, you will find screenshots of comments from the original post.

Here's the original Reddit post by u/Maximum_Somewhere281:

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The rule originally excluded even OP from attending the wedding.

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Then the name-calling proceeded, and OP's future sister-in-law grew angrier.

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OP's entire family is now upset with her.

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OP wondered if what she did was wrong and asked the community to share their opinions.

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Here's how Reddit users reacted to u/Maximum_Somewhere281's story:

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Emily and OP's brother are definitely in the wrong here.

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OP can't give in now; she'll end up paying the consequences later.

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Why even involve OP and her boyfriend in this ordeal?

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They have absolutely no grounds to complain.

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They can't even follow through with their own logic.

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Ditch the wedding and be happy.

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It's one of the worst things anyone can ever go through.

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Hard pass. Remind her that you're only a child.

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So many safety issues are involved.

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They need a whole team of people.

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This whole situation is a disaster waiting to happen:

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OP addressed ADB_BWG's questions in a follow-up reply:

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The true a-hole here is Emily.

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Unfair and unkind doesn't even begin to describe it.

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The brother should put a stop to this.

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That's kind of specific, but okay.

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Emily came up with that brilliant idea.

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Two people cannot possibly do that job.

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The family should not be okay with this.

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It's a responsibility anyone would refuse to take on.

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It's an insane idea, and not to forget, extremely unsafe.

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That's far beyond "asking for a favor."

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They're trying to cut costs at her expense.

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This user suspected that Emily didn't want OP to steal the spotlight from her.

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Here's what OP's parents think about this whole ordeal:

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OP is definitely not the a-hole in this situation: you can't expect anyone to want to assume this kind of responsibility, regardless of their line of work. Calling her names afterward proved how toxic the brother's future wife is; she really put OP in a corner and gave her no real choices.

I hope OP resolves this issue with her brother so she can attend his wedding and be part of the happiest day of his life. As for the future wife, she should really reevaluate her behavior and apologize to OP.