Man Tells Pregnant Wife She Will Have To Go Back To Work After Giving Birth Because She Deliberately Ruined Five Of His Job Interviews
Insensitivity or jealousy?
We all have goals in life, and they are different for every person. However, there are some goals that most people pursue—career and family.
It is challenging to combine both, so both partners should put in the effort. Naturally, we all expect support from our partners, especially when working to make our life together easier and better.
The new reality has forced us to blend family and work, making it hard to draw the line between them. Reddit user @/veganwizard decided to share his story to illustrate how difficult things can be when there is no support.
The 27-year-old has a 24-year-old wife who is currently six months pregnant with their first child. The narrator has begun looking for a better-paying job, considering their situation and his wife's desire to become a stay-at-home mom after giving birth.
The man was fortunate enough to land a job in the IT industry, where he would be paid three times as much as he is now. One of the interview components included a test that allowed the workplace to assess the interviewee's competency.
The conditions included taking the test alone, conducting internet searches, and remaining silent. Because the interview was conducted online, the narrator was able to do it from the comfort of his own home.
Knowing this, the husband informed his wife and requested that she remain silent during this time. However, she did not...
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Jo Naylor (not the actual photo)OP shared his problem:
RedditHis wife wants to be a SAHM, so he must find a better-paying job
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He had an important interview
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And he had to do a test
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He told his wife about it, but she didn't care...
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So he did what he thought was right—he ignored her
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She yelled at him and turned the music on—loud.
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Of course, the distraction caused him to fail the exam.
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OP is furious because this is the fifth interview she has ruined
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So he told her she should start working after giving birth.
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The Redditors mostly agree:
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This is good advice
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It is hard to understand her actions...
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Five interviews? Really?
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It is perfectly reasonable to expect people around you to be quiet during important interviews...
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What is the wife thinking?
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It is clearly a pattern...
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Yes, that's how it is done...
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It is the way it should be...
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This might work... But it is sad that it has to be done.
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It is unclear why the wife acted the way she did. Did she change her mind about staying home with the child? Or was she simply jealous of her husband’s potential success?
We feel that some detail is missing that would make this story easier to understand. It’s hard to believe that the wife would act like this just out of the blue.
Whatever the reason, we hope they will work it out. Landing a good job is hard, and so is finding a good nanny.