Incredulous Bridezilla Has Her Ex Maid Of Honor Wondering If She Made The Wrong Choice In Dropping Out Of The Wedding Party To Support Her Own Fiancé
The bride says she doesn't want exes in her wedding pictures and assumes that's what will happen if her MoH brings her fiancé as her plus one.
One bride’s wedding rule was enough to turn a 10-year relationship into a full-blown friendship crisis. When her maid of honor found out her fiancé was not invited, the whole situation went from awkward to insulting fast.
On Reddit, the woman behind the username MadMOH2710 explained that she and her partner of 10 years are expecting a baby and planning their wedding soon. But after learning that only long-term married couples would be allowed to bring a plus one, and that her fiancé was being treated like an ex, she decided she would not attend at all.
Now her friends think she overreacted, while Reddit has plenty to say about the bride’s logic. Read on.
Some wedding rules, like what this redditor has experienced, are questionable.
Dmitry ZvolskiyAn ex-maid of honor shares her terrible experience on Reddit.
MadMOH2710She explains what her plans are with her soon-to-be husband.
MadMOH2710
Her best friend is getting married soon, and she's invited.
MadMOH2710
She was to be the maid of honor.
MadMOH2710
Anybody would assume this is the case.
MadMOH2710
The redditor's best friend decided that her fiancé can't come to the wedding because of her beliefs.
MadMOH2710
That’s where the friendship started to crack.
The redditor confronts her best friend.
MadMOH2710
Coming from a best friend? That hurts.
MadMOH2710
Only those in the relationship will know whether they'll stay together or not. Other people can't dictate that, not even a best friend.
MadMOH2710
She asked the community if she was wrong for dropping the maid of honor role after the argument.
This is the same kind of wedding fallout as the bride who’s marrying someone the narrator considers her ex.
She asks the community if she's wrong for dropping the maid of honor role after the argument.
MadMOH2710
After experiencing such a thing, most people wouldn't dare attend the wedding of a terrible best friend.
DeathGP
It's not even up to her best friend to decide whether the relationship is valid or not.
mubi_merc
Bridezillas like the redditor's best friend do exist.
Reddit
Reddit did not hold back on the bride’s behavior.
It's friendship over for other redditors.
herdeary
It's a 10-year relationship, and they'll get married soon. It can already be considered a long-term one.
RumSoakedChap
If you think about it, the bride might have a problem with the fiancé.
curious_seahorse1
Time to reconsider the friendship if it's really worth it.
Tai-Frasier
For this redditor, it seems that the bride-to-be wants to take advantage of her unmarried best friend.
cheltsie
A lot of marriages don't even last for 10 years.
jg700
What the future would be like.
Suspicious_Safety_45
So in the end, she wasn’t voted as the "a**hole" by the community. A number of redditors think that the best friend is being a bridezilla.
Others were shocked that a 10-year relationship wasn’t considered valid in the best friend’s eyes. Then some people suspect that the bride has issues with the guy.
We don’t have updates from the original poster, but let’s hope she’s now happy and a joyful mom, without the toxic ex-BFF invalidating her relationship.
Wait, WIBTA for skipping your best friend’s wedding over her fiancé’s toxic behavior? See this Redditor’s dilemma.
