Incredulous Bridezilla Has Her Ex Maid Of Honor Wondering If She Made The Wrong Choice In Dropping Out Of The Wedding Party To Support Her Own Fiancé
The bride says she doesn't want exes in her wedding pictures and assumes that's what will happen if her MoH brings her fiancé as her plus one.
The decisions of a soon-to-be-married couple are certainly theirs to make. From the people they want to invite and the food that will be served to the design and motif of their big day, it's only natural that they set their own rules.
At the same time, it's also the decision of the invitee to not attend the wedding if there are some rules they're not comfortable with. This is especially true if the rules result from questionable assumptions.
Unfortunately, this was what one woman experienced. Her best friend told her that she cannot be accompanied by her fiancé because he isn't invited.
On the popular subreddit called "Am I the A**hole?," a woman with a username that describes her current predicament, MadMOH2710, shares her experience. She and her partner of 10 years are set to be married soon and are expecting a baby.
The redditor only found out that her fiancé couldn't be her plus one through a mutual friend. After finally confronting her best friend, the bride explained that only long-term married couples would be allowed at her wedding.
She added that she doesn't want "exes" in her wedding pictures. In other words, the woman's best friend is invalidating her relationship with her soon-to-be husband.
This is simply unacceptable for the redditor, so she ultimately decided that she wouldn't attend the wedding. Her friends think she's wrong for doing so.
But the Reddit community is on her side. Let's see their take on the situation.
Some wedding rules, like what this redditor has experienced, are questionable.
Dmitry ZvolskiyAn ex-maid of honor shares her terrible experience on Reddit.
MadMOH2710She explains what her plans are with her soon-to-be husband.
MadMOH2710
Her best friend is getting married soon, and she's invited.
MadMOH2710
She was to be the maid of honor.
MadMOH2710
Anybody would assume this is the case.
MadMOH2710
The redditor's best friend decided that her fiancé can't come to the wedding because of her beliefs.
MadMOH2710
The redditor confronts her best friend.
MadMOH2710
Coming from a best friend? That hurts.
MadMOH2710
Only those in the relationship will know whether they'll stay together or not. Other people can't dictate that, not even a best friend.
MadMOH2710
She asks the community if she's wrong for dropping the maid of honor role after the argument.
MadMOH2710
After experiencing such a thing, most people wouldn't dare attend the wedding of a terrible best friend.
DeathGP
It's not even up to her best friend to decide whether the relationship is valid or not.
mubi_merc
Bridezillas like the redditor's best friend do exist.
Reddit
It's friendship over for other redditors.
herdeary
It's a 10-year relationship, and they'll get married soon. It can already be considered a long-term one.
RumSoakedChap
If you think about it, the bride might have a problem with the fiancé.
curious_seahorse1
Time to reconsider the friendship if it's really worth it.
Tai-Frasier
For this redditor, it seems that the bride-to-be wants to take advantage of her unmarried best friend.
cheltsie
A lot of marriages don't even last for 10 years.
jg700
What the future would be like.
Suspicious_Safety_45
Reddit users agree that it's the best friend's fault.
So in the end, she wasn't voted as the "a**hole" by the community. A number of redditors think that the best friend is being a bridezilla.
Others were shocked that a 10-year relationship wasn't considered valid in the best friend's eyes. Then some people suspect that the bride has issues with the guy.
We don't have updates from the original poster, but let's hope she's now happy and a joyful mom, without the toxic ex-BFF invalidating her relationship.
