Reddit Thinks This Woman Is Unreasonable for Forbidding Her Boyfriend from Being the Best Man at His Best Friend's Wedding
Her Reddit post is discovered by the best friend's fiancée as well.
A pregnant woman on Reddit thought she had a solid reason to say no, but her boyfriend’s best man duties quickly turned into a relationship fight.
She had fallen out with his best friend’s fiancée, and that tension spilled over into the wedding plans. Instead of keeping the conflict separate, she told her boyfriend he should skip being the best man and focus on her and their baby. Here’s the full story.
The original poster uses a throwaway account to explain the situation.
aitaconflicted1234The boyfriend wants to be the best man, but his girlfriend forbids him to.
aitaconflicted1234How the original poster's friends reacted. You can already see she's being unreasonable.
aitaconflicted1234
That is where the conflict really starts to show.
If she had communicated with the woman, things would have been better.
Nut-me-SHELL
That's true!
RatherFabulousFreak
It's called overreacting.
Eelpan2
People are wondering what happened between the two women.
spookcakes
There's just not enough information.
spookcakes
Confronting the problem would have worked.
DrMartinellis
Redditors were not impressed with how she handled it.
About what we'd expect from a controlling girlfriend too.
derpberp1
She shouldn't drag her boyfriend into her conflict with the fiancée.
Etoilebleuetoile
We just hope she matures by the time the baby is born.
PrincessOfZenithia
Redditors agree that she should have patched things up with the fiancée.
cikanman
The boyfriend must be really tired of dealing with her too.
EngageAndMakeItSo, SpottyHeart
In other words, so immature!
Adepte, Nik-ki, Wstern_Compote_4461
The moment the Redditors saw those words is also the moment they concluded she's the a**hole.
John_Keating_
Her actions are a red flag for her boyfriend.
FlithyDaemon
That pregnancy card did not win her any sympathy.
What was the gossip all about anyway?
wildeflowers
The original poster reacted immaturely to the situation.
wildeflowers
At this point, Redditors agree that everything is the original poster's fault.
themallama
The boyfriend isn't even doing anything wrong. Yet, she's putting him in a tight spot.
wildeflowers
Looks like someone's in trouble.
peysval
Some believe it's real; others don't.
dronna, itsmelexipoo, factsorfictions
Then there are people who just want to be entertained.
npcknapsack, ponytaexpress
They want the other party's side of the story.
nyorifamiliarspirit, cocoane, kunderthunt
The fiancée admits she's an a**hole for exposing her like that.
It's just so sad that Reddit had to be the way to end the drama. Involving the internet wasn't necessary.
peysval
She's open to making amends.
peysval
And the story still leaves one big question hanging.
Redditors agree that the original poster is in the wrong.
And there's some interesting development too. Sadly, the original poster never responded to her friend on Reddit.
We don't know what will happen next, but we do wish the boyfriend gets to be the best man without being stressed by his controlling girlfriend.
Her boyfriend may need a wedding plus a little peace and quiet.
Want another AITA blowup, read how she refused a baby shower for her judgemental pregnant friend.
