Woman Snaps At Her Husband In Front of His Family After He Makes An Insensitive And Humiliating Joke About Her Experience In The Delivery Room

Researchers suggest that about one-third of women find giving birth traumatic. It is not just about the pain, even though experts agree that it is one of the strongest pains known to human beings.

The whole experience is mentally traumatic, with fear of the unknown and wondering if the baby will be alright… In circumstances like these, human beings can often lose control of their actions. That’s why women need support and someone who will be there for them.

This support should extend to the period after the child’s birth since new moms are especially sensitive. Their bodies and minds undergo extreme changes in just nine months.

Of course, we are not saying that husbands should be kind and considerate only during pregnancy and after birth… On the contrary, they should act like that all the time.

Sadly, some husbands don’t. Not even during delivery and after the birth.

One Reddit user shared her experience. She had an “accident” before she gave birth, and now her husband is constantly making jokes about it.

So, she snapped. She yelled at him in front of his family, and now he believes she embarrassed him. As if the jokes he made weren’t embarrassing for her…

Yes, it is clear that he is the victim here.

Women need support during childbirth.

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OP shared her problem:

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She had an "accident" while in labor

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The medical team was professional, probably because they have seen this happen thousands of times before. But the husband laughed.

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And he started making jokes about it...

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When he made such a joke in front of his family, OP snapped.

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And the husband is now angry because she has hurt his feelings... Poor hubby...

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Redditors agree that OP didn't overreact.

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His jokes are inconsiderate and not funny at all.

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"Just joking" is not an excuse! Your jokes hurt people...

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Other women had similar experiences, but their husbands never mention it.

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It is expected...

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This is a good suggestion...

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HB needs to grow up.

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HB plays the victim here...

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He continued making jokes even though he was asked to stop.

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Why does he even think it is funny?

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Damn right!

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Yes, he should have...

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Just for kicks...

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It’s simply unbelievable that a husband can be so insensitive, poorly informed, and a plain idiot. What happened to OP is very common. In Europe, women going into the delivery room undergo a procedure with an enema to prevent these things from happening.

Since it is not common in the US, it is entirely natural for these things to happen. We are only sorry she didn’t do it on her husband’s head because he seems like he deserves it. What an insensitive idiot.

Instead of being there for his wife, he reminds her of something embarrassing and even makes jokes about it, humiliating her even more. Why does he do that?

We hope he will come to his senses and start helping OP with the baby. That would leave him less time to come up with such bad jokes.