Women Share With The World What Life Has Been Like Since They Got Their Tubes Tied
For the record, never let anyone push you into doing anything that you don't want to do.
Getting your tubes tied is one of those choices that can spark big opinions fast, especially when family planning and personal freedom collide. For some women, it brings relief. For others, it comes with questions, side comments, or zero regrets at all.
In this roundup, women share what life has been like after tubal ligation, from the reactions they got to how they feel about the decision now. The stories are personal, blunt, and sometimes funny, which makes the whole thing even more relatable.
Here’s what they had to say, and why so many of them sound completely sure of themselves.
1. What a d!ck!
Whisper2. IVF is no joke. But what about adoption?
Whisper3. You could always get a reversal...
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Some of these reactions are a lot more judgmental than the women expected.
4. I know it's expensive, but tubal ligation reversal is an option.
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5. Then they weren't your person, sweetie.
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6. That's right! You are not defined by having or not wanting to have children.
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For a few of them, the decision sounds like pure relief.
7. She regrets nothing!
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8. Only you know what you want. But you should really tell him, sis.
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9. Oh snap.
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And in more than one case, the real issue is the person on the other side of the conversation.
And if you think baby logistics are messy, an ex-best friend fight over splitting baby funding gets brutal fast.
10. You could. It's just very expensive!
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11. Um, I don't think it works that way, hun.
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12. Nope. You don't owe anyone an answer.
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That boundary is doing a lot of work here.
13. Adopt then, mama!
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14. I'm proud of you for knowing what you want!
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15. Reverse or adopt. There are definitely options out there for you!
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These women seem pretty confident they made the right call.
Wait, a secret vasectomy without consulting a partner caused a full family rift, read whether this AITA user was wrong for scheduling it secretly.