Am I Wrong for Adjusting My Tip After Prices Increased at My Favorite Sandwich Shop?
AITA for not tipping after prices increased at my favorite sandwich shop? Owner expected more and made a comment, sparking a debate on tipping etiquette.
A 28-year-old regular at a tiny local sandwich shop says he adjusted his tip after the price jumped, and now he’s wondering if he crossed some kind of line. The whole thing is playing out at a window, with the owner and his wife running the place most days, so every visit feels personal.
Normally, OP grabs the full lunch combo, chips, and a drink for about $8.50, hands over a $10, and leaves $1.50. Last week, the owner told him the combo went up a dollar to around $9.50. OP still paid with his usual $10, but since he was hungry and didn’t have extra cash, he left only $0.50. Today, when he paid by card, he tipped $1.50 again, and the owner joked he expected more after the “small” tip.
Now OP is stuck between “I tipped what I could” and “he thinks I stiffed him.”
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I go to this local sandwich place at least once a week. It's usually just the owner and his wife working.
Usually, my entire lunch sandwich, chips, and drinks cost about $8.50 and I pay with a 10 and leave 1.50 for the tip. Last week, I went in and the owner informed me that he raised the price a dollar so now it comes out to about $9.50 for the lunch combo.
I was really hungry and I figured that not getting the combo and just the sandwich wouldn't do it for me. So I paid for my lunch with my regular $10 and only left 50 cents in the tip jar.
Since I didn't have any more cash, I went in today and paid for the sandwich with my card, chips, and drink and a tip of 1.50 and didn't think about it.
The guy makes a joke about how he was expecting a bigger tip since I didn't really tip last time. AITA?
EDIT: So to clarify. It's like a window on the side of the building and you walk up and he has a few tables and chairs for you to sit.
The only people who I've ever seen working there are the owner and his wife, but I think he has someone else come on weekends. I've never been on a weekend.
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The moment the owner mentioned the combo went up, OP basically had to do math on the spot with a $10 bill and no extra cash.
After OP left $0.50 last week instead of $1.50, the owner’s expectation turned into a joke that landed right in front of the window.
When OP came back and tipped $1.50 on a card order, you’d think the awkwardness would cool off, but the owner still brought it up.
With the owner and his wife usually working and OP only seeing other help on weekends, this “tip drama” feels like it’s happening in the same familiar loop every week.
What do you think about this situation? Let us know in the comments.
If the owner wanted bigger tips, he should have stopped treating OP’s cash math like a personal insult.
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