BIL Drank My Pumped Milk That Was "Smelling Bad," AITA For Being Disgusted And Losing My Cool?

Family gatherings can be a mix of joy and tension, as they often bring out the best and worst in people. For many, these events are opportunities to reconnect with loved ones, but they can also lead to uncomfortable situations.

In some cases, these gatherings can be even more challenging for new parents, who must navigate the added stress of caring for an infant. OP is a mom, attending her in-laws' family gathering with her husband and 8-month-old baby.

She pumps her breast milk to store in the cooler for her baby. Arriving late at her in-laws, she had noticed the stored milk was smelling weird so she decided to throw it away.

But first, the OP kept the breast milk by the sink because her baby was hungry and she had to prepare another meal for the baby. OP's BIL took the breast milk while she was busy feeding the baby and you wouldn't believe what he did next.

He pulled out shot glasses, poured the breast milk and offered it to her husband. OP's husband laughed and poured his glass in the sink but the BIL went ahead to drink his.

Unbelievable, right? His actions have caused the OP to react, even though she tried to brush off her feelings. Read the full story below to get the whole details.

The OP writes...

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It was a small family gathering over the weekend with OP's husband's close family

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The husband's brother Josh pulled out shot glasses and poured the breast milk

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OP's MIL said that it's not like he took the milk from the baby

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The comments roll in...

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It's gross all around

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No cheap jokes

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It's weird and strange

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The OP left this update later on...

I went through most of the comments throughout the day and saw perspectives from both sides. Some people agree with me and see this as a violation while some don't which is fine. I think it all comes down to how people view breastfeeding/breastmilk in general, for some it's just milk for some (and for me) it's deeply personal. I would not hesitate to donate to a baby but a grown ass man or a body builder drinking is not cool with me.I called my FIL and apologised for my reaction. He was understanding about my perspective and apologised for not saying anything. We are good.I forwarded the post to my husband. We haven't had a chat yet (he is at work) but I am hoping he understands where I was coming from.For Josh, I am not getting him a bib for Christmas as someone commented (though that would be funny) but when I calm down I will have a chat with him.

The comments continues...

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The OP's allowed to be upset

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This Redditor is disgusted

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The rule of thumb

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It's clear the incident left the OP feeling disrespected and bitter. She's left wondering if she was overreacting or if her in-laws truly didn't understand the intimacy of breastfeeding.

As the family gathering came to a close, OP couldn't help but feel like she was the only one who saw the situation for what it truly was. From her update, it's clear she's willing to resolve the whole issue and has taken steps towards it.

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