Mother Gets Upset Over A Horrible Gift And Decides To Cancel Her Family's Future Gift-Exchanging Tradition

What were the girlfriends thinking?

Being a part of holiday traditions allows us to feel that we belong to something bigger. It helps us stay rooted in our origins.

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Sharing meals with family and participating in activities that keep the Christmas spirit alive strengthens the bonds we share. That's why practicing holiday traditions means a lot to most people.

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As time goes by, there will always be additions to the family. Sons and daughters who get married and have children participate in these traditions.

With more people celebrating Christmas in one gathering, a sense of continuity is achieved. Food will always be a part of these traditions.

And since Christmas is a season of giving, gifts play a significant role in these holiday traditions. So it's natural for some families to have a gift-exchanging event during their gatherings.

Sadly, not all Christmas practices within a family are bound to last. Take this mother we're looking at today as an example.

A user named MiakhodaOnihcram shared a bad experience that occurred on Christmas Day on Reddit. The gift given to her was so cheap.

Not only that, but the giver made remarks that hurt the mom's feelings. With such a terrible gift, she is seriously considering making this year's gift-giving event the last one for the family.

Redditors weigh in on whether or not she's the a**hole in this situation. Let's take a look at their reactions.

First time celebrating Christmas with their sons and their sons' SOs

First time celebrating Christmas with their sons and their sons' SOsReddit
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The awesome gifts that the sons received

The awesome gifts that the sons receivedReddit
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The worst gifts

The worst giftsReddit

What made the gift even worse

What made the gift even worseReddit

The old couple have differing opinions about the gift the original poster received.

The old couple have differing opinions about the gift the original poster received.Reddit

She ultimately wants to stop the gift-giving event, but her husband tells her that she'll end up being the a**hole in the whole situation.

She ultimately wants to stop the gift-giving event, but her husband tells her that she'll end up being the a**hole in the whole situation.Reddit

She had to further explain her side.

She had to further explain her side.Reddit

Something's fishy with the son's girlfriend.

Something's fishy with the son's girlfriend.Reddit

The eldest son's situation

The eldest son's situationReddit

The real reason behind the absurd gift

The real reason behind the absurd giftReddit

Letting the girlfriend handle the gift purchase was such a bad idea.

Letting the girlfriend handle the gift purchase was such a bad idea.Reddit

The girlfriend even wants to cut all ties with the original poster because she is a stepmom.

The girlfriend even wants to cut all ties with the original poster because she is a stepmom.Reddit

No more gift-giving event. It's probably for the best.

No more gift-giving event. It's probably for the best.Reddit

A redditor had to hear more details about the story.

A redditor had to hear more details about the story.Reddit

If only this user saw the updates.

If only this user saw the updates.Reddit

There is a reason why she's odd. She hates the mom.

There is a reason why she's odd. She hates the mom.Reddit

What the girlfriend did was absolutely rude. You can't even call that a gift.

What the girlfriend did was absolutely rude. You can't even call that a gift.Reddit

Sadly, it was intentional.

Sadly, it was intentional.Reddit

The tradition deserves another chance for this user.

The tradition deserves another chance for this user.Reddit

This is what you call a gift—something that's really useful.

This is what you call a gift—something that's really useful.Reddit

Those were horrible gifts indeed.

Those were horrible gifts indeed.Reddit

Communication is key.

Communication is key.Reddit

Sadly, he's head over heels for this girl.

Sadly, he's head over heels for this girl.Reddit

With such thoughtless actions, being honest about how hurtful they are is important.

With such thoughtless actions, being honest about how hurtful they are is important.Reddit

It's definitely odd if the previous ones were thoughtful gifts.

It's definitely odd if the previous ones were thoughtful gifts.Reddit

For others, it's best to solve the root problem first before letting go of the tradition.

For others, it's best to solve the root problem first before letting go of the tradition.Reddit

Lowering the value of the gifts might be a good idea as well.

Lowering the value of the gifts might be a good idea as well.Reddit

Other users want to exact revenge.

Other users want to exact revenge.Reddit

But it's not ideal to stoop down to the level of the girlfriend.

But it's not ideal to stoop down to the level of the girlfriend.Reddit

What a man in his early '20s should be buying as a gift.

What a man in his early '20s should be buying as a gift.Reddit

The original poster's husband needs to have a talk with the boys.

The original poster's husband needs to have a talk with the boys.Reddit

This redditor agrees to drop the rope. If she'll end up with a thoughtless gift, then it's better not to receive anything at all.

This redditor agrees to drop the rope. If she'll end up with a thoughtless gift, then it's better not to receive anything at all.Reddit

Other redditors are wondering about it too.

Other redditors are wondering about it too.Reddit

The girlfriend really hates her boyfriend's mom.

The girlfriend really hates her boyfriend's mom.Reddit

The clueless boys.

The clueless boys.Reddit

The entitled girls.

The entitled girls.Reddit

Ultimately, the tradition ends.

And it's understandable. Plus, with such thoughtless girlfriends, it's probably best not to receive anything at all.

The tradition can always come back once the situation improves. Grandchildren will always make these events happier, so it's probably best for them to hold off until new members of the family arrive.

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