Woman Finds Out Her Tinder Date Was Engaged And She Tells His Fiancé
When someone said, "it's a jungle out here," I know they were talking about Tinder.
Tinder can feel like a full-time gamble, and Kimberly Anne learned that the hard way.
The 31-year-old went on a date with a man she met on the app, only to discover he was not just seeing someone else, he was already engaged. That kind of lie turns a casual swipe into a messy real-life confrontation, especially when the other woman has no idea what is going on.
Kimberly decided to tell the fiancée herself, and the fallout was immediate. Here's how it played out.
Here is Kimberly and a guy she matched with (AND went on a date with) after meeting on Tinder
They went on a date, and she thought things went well.
After the first date, he came up on her 'people you may know' on Facebook.
Kennedy News & MediaWedding-week chaos feels familiar to the partner who exposed a hidden past and wrecked an anniversary dinner.
Kimberly soon realized that not only was her date already committed to the 'someone special' that he said he was looking for, but he was also engaged!
She confronted her date, but he claimed she had the ‘wrong person.’
Kimberly said, "He sent me a message on WhatsApp, and I asked him why he was messaging me there instead of just sending a regular text, and he just changed the subject. When I started scrolling on Facebook, it brought up suggested friends, and I recognized him immediately from his profile picture. I thought I’d take a look, and the first thing I noticed was that it said he was in a relationship. Hoping it was old, I clicked on her profile, and the first post was an engagement announcement from exactly one month ago."
Kennedy News & MediaShe confronted his fiancée, citing the fact that if it were her, she'd want to know!
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She totally called him out! The fiancée seemed bummed but happy that she was told. Best of all, she didn't blame Kimberly!
Kimberly stated, "I just felt that if the tables were turned, I would want her [his fiancée] to tell me. I feel women have to support women in these situations."
"My whole body was shaking when I was sending these messages because I didn’t know how she was going to react. I felt so awful and partially responsible that I could potentially be breaking this woman’s heart."
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For a different kind of betrayal, see the AITA woman who left her friend stranded to chase a date.