Man Gets Upset At Wife For Not Going To His Christmas Party Despite Her Reason

When a woman experiences menstrual cramps, bloating, or heavy bleeding, it's not just her physical discomfort – it can also affect her activities. Some people may feel helpless, frustrated, or even confused by the emotional shifts that can come with menstruation.

In situations like today's story, a partner's absence during a Christmas party due to menstrual issues can be perceived as a personal disappointment (at least, that's how OP's husband saw it). However, it's essential to recognize that these symptoms are not within a woman's control.

Rather than expecting her to "tough it out" or "power through," it's crucial to offer empathy and understanding. By acknowledging the legitimacy of her physical pain and emotional struggles, partners can build trust and strengthen their relationship.

OP’s partner failed in being supportive when she needed him the most. You see, OP was beyond thrilled when her husband landed a new job with an invite to the company's annual Christmas party.

As a plus one, OP was eager to dress up and celebrate with her husband. Her excitement was short-lived as the day of the party arrived, and she found herself battling severe cramps and heavy flow due to her monthly cycle.

Despite initially being understanding, OP's husband grew increasingly upset as the day went on, later deciding to stay home with her and ditching the party. This didn't sit well with the OP, and her husband's attitude only made things worse.

The OP writes...

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The OP could not be able to attend because she would feel super uncomfortable

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The OP asked her husband why was his day was ruined, and he answered "you know why"

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

1. action was that I did not go to Xmas party 2) because I wasn't supportive?

We've gathered some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors for you to read through below

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The OP was uncomfortable and not feeling well

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This Redditor would have sucked it up and went

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It's not fair the OP is being mistreated over it

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The OP has a relatively valid cause for her last-minute cancellation. Her husband, on the other hand, is perfectly entitled to feel angry.

The OP didn't feel comfortable going because she was in pain. Some Redditors said her husband can go ahead and be angry with her but its still OP's choice to take painkillers.

Other Redditors also have their opinion and you can read some of them below.

OP's husband owes her an apology

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OP's husband should have just gone to the party

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This Redditor does not like OP's husband

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He is being a complete AH to the OP

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As the OP's situation shows, even the best-laid plans can go awry due to circumstances beyond our control. Her husband's reaction has left her feeling guilty and uncertain.

Many Redditors agree that the OP’s husband should suck it up and stop making the OP feel like she should have prioritized his work event over her own well-being. OP's intentions are clear, and Redditors declared her not the AH.

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