30 Stories Of People Who Got What They Deserved After Complaining About Their Partners' Hard Work
If your partner thinks you are doing "it" wrong, let them do it themselves. They'll learn.
Have you ever experienced being with a person who thinks you should always do things their way? How did you deal with it?
Being with this type of person is hard and probably stressful, especially if you are married to one. Marriage alone is already a challenging commitment; how much more difficult is it if you have a partner who disapproves of everything you do unless it is done according to their preferences?
In order to make a marriage successful, people often make adjustments to understand and handle their partner's personality, behavior, and attitudes, which aren't always positive. However, it cannot be denied that every person has a different level of patience when it comes to putting up with their partner's worst side.
Sharing her marriage experience, a Redditor named Millie Barnes made a post in the subreddit community r/MaliciousCompliance. In her post, she revealed how she dealt with her ex-husband's ridiculous demand that she cook something she had never even tried before, leading her to leave him a year and a half later.
To her surprise, her post gained 18.5K likes and 1.4K comments, showing that many people in the community had experienced similar situations in their married lives. Scroll down to read her full post and the top comments from Redditors describing their experiences of malicious compliance in marriage.
Way back 1971
Reddit/milliebarnesHusband told her what he wanted for dinner.
Reddit/milliebarnesWife explained she had never had it before, but he insisted she make it.
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So, the wife obeyed and did what she was told.
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She told her husband she would prepare dinner that they both would eat and enjoy.
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The husband got mad, but she stood up for herself.
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#1 Didn't have to cook breakfast.
Reddit/ThaneOfCawdorrr| flickr
#2 Marriage is a partnership; both have equal shares.
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#3 That's what you get when you tell her how to make things better and fail to see her efforts.
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#4 Need to wake up earlier than him.
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#5 Learn to say thank you and be quiet.
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#6 Leaving a control freak.
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#7 You have no right to refuse something that makes a chore easier if you've never tried doing it yourself.
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#8 What an excuse for his unfaithfulness.
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#9 Glad she's out of that marriage.
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#10 The butter led you to something better.
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#11 Mom wasn't joking about that.
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#12 She left a selfish man.
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#13 Never let anyone rule your life.
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#14 Simple as that.
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#15 What part of "no kids" was hard to understand?
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#16 No more stuffed peppers for him.
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#17 Karma visited his honeymoon.
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#18 People show their true colors after marriage.
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#19 Not cleaning up after his mess, not anymore.
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#20 Dad got it twisted.
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#21 What a sweet revenge.
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#22 Cooking is fun for him.
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#23 Good thing she admitted her mistake.
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#24 Checking each other for safety reasons.
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#25 The grandparents' secret.
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#26 Marriage in 1971 sounds like a nightmare.
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#27 A can of soup for dinner?
Reddit/Swiggy1957
#28 He cooks, she cleans.
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#29 What does he mean by "husband time"?
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#30 The last straw for feeling unappreciated.
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An act of appreciation can make someone's day, especially if that person is your significant other. Instead of focusing on what your partner can't do, concentrate on the things they have done for you and be grateful for their efforts.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, and having someone who accepts your whole being as a person is something that everyone seeks. Like and share for more amazing stories!