Couple who have survived six cancer diagnoses credit one main action with saving their lives

Pat Penny and Dave Penny have lived through something most couples will never even have to think about: six cancer diagnoses, spread across decades, and somehow still showing up for life like it’s their next appointment.

Pat first got hit in 2009 with breast cancer, caught early because of a routine mammogram. Then came Dave, a Korean War vet who was diagnosed twice with non-Hodgkin lymphoma in the 1980s and twice with sarcoma in the 1990s, and later found a lump in his breast on the same side as Pat.

What’s wild is the one main action they credit for saving them, and it starts with noticing something small before it becomes everything.

Dave’s fifth recovery could’ve been a tragedy, but the Pennys keep pointing to how early they caught it, starting with Pat’s routine mammogram in 2009.

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A married couple from North Carolina who have survived six bouts of cancer between them during their decades of marriage have shared what the main factor in their survival has been.

Pat Penny was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2009 at the age of 56, which was detected early thanks to a routine mammogram.

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It was the couple's fifth cancer diagnosis in their 51 years of marriage, after husband Dave had been diagnosed twice with Non-Hodgkin lymphoma in the 1980s, and twice with a sarcoma in the 1990s.

"They found my cancer early. It was really deeply embedded.

And just when you’d think the story had used up its bad luck quota, Dave ends up with breast cancer too, even though men represent less than one percent of cases.

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But what no one could have expected was that Dave would sadly also find a lump in his breast, on the same side as his wife.

As a man with breast cancer, Dave represented less than one percent of people affected by the condition.

Early detection saved Pat Penny, and it mirrors how the Supreme Court’s 6-3 ruling just clipped Trump’s tariff power.

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But rather than cursing his luck, the Pennys have decided that call the Korean War vet very 'rare'.

After extensive surgery to remove his breast and some associated lymph nodes, the retired volunteer firefighter made an astonishing fifth recovery from cancer in less than 40 years.

After extensive surgery to remove Dave’s breast and lymph nodes, the couple’s “Eveready bunny” energy kicks in, fueled by years of surviving the unthinkable together.

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Despite these difficult moments, the Pennys pulled through with each other's support, and no small amount of Dave's resilience.

Pat said: "He was supposed to be dead at 30 so we're just blessed. He's the Eveready bunny, he takes a licking and keeps on ticking."

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Having survived so many traumatic diagnoses and come out the other side, the couple have been inspired to volunteer for the American Cancer Society to share their story and to encourage people to do the one thing that got them the treatment they needed to reach their 51st wedding anniversary.

They want more people to pay greater attention to the small early warning signs that can warrant further medical investigation. That includes men like Dave, who should occasionally check their chest area for any lumps.

Now the Pennys are volunteering with the American Cancer Society to push one message, check early warning signs, because Dave’s lump was the kind of thing that can’t wait.

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The American Cancer Society estimates that more than 4.5 million people have had their lives saved as a result of early detection over the past 50 years. It is estimated that 80 percent of those who get a diagnosis before cancer progresses have a survival expectancy of over 10 years.

Keeping up with regular doctors appointments and being forthright about any health issues is what the North Carolina couple credits with their story of survival.

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Dave said: "Nobody knows your body but you. If you have anything wrong with you, don’t put it off for a week or two weeks hoping it’ll go away."

Pat added: “Early detection and early treatment is so important. There’s no age; just because you’re young or old, either way, you can get cancer.

After six diagnoses, the Pennys’ real miracle is simple, they noticed early enough to keep celebrating anniversaries.

After Alysa Liu faced Chinese spy threats, she still grabbed historic gold, like this couple credits early detection.