Furious Woman Decides To Uninvite The Male Members Of Her Family After They Bullied Her Fiancé

One of the pranks they pulled off was considered a crime.

Toxic masculinity is a problem that still pervades modern society. Men are expected to behave in a certain way, even if it means causing physical and mental harm to themselves and others.

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This ultimately benefits no one and can lead to serious consequences. There are many reasons why toxic masculinity is harmful.

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For one, it can lead to violence. Men who feel they must act tough and be in control often resort to physical violence to assert their dominance.

This can result in injuries or even death for both the men involved and any innocent bystanders. Toxic masculinity can also lead to mental health problems such as anxiety and depression.

Men are taught to bottle up their emotions and not show any weakness. This can lead to feelings of isolation and an inability to cope with stress or other negative experiences.

Unfortunately, a woman's fiancé experienced this kind of toxicity. The men in her family wanted to test his manliness.

To do so, they even went as far as hiding his inhaler (he has asthma). She shared her experience on Reddit and wondered if she was wrong for uninviting several family members after they bullied her husband-to-be.

Let's see how the community reacted.

Some background story about the redditor's family

Some background story about the redditor's familyThrowawayfamily976
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The men tried testing the fiancé's manliness through absurd questions and what they call "pranks."

The men tried testing the fiancé's manliness through absurd questions and what they call Throwawayfamily976
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Anyone would lose it if their family did the same thing.

Anyone would lose it if their family did the same thing.Throwawayfamily976

Even her mom is being unreasonable.

Even her mom is being unreasonable.Throwawayfamily976

Pranks are meant to be harmless. But what the men did was far from it.

Pranks are meant to be harmless. But what the men did was far from it.missteacher2

Every man is different. But the toxic men in the original poster's family refuse to see that.

Every man is different. But the toxic men in the original poster's family refuse to see that.missteacher2

How pranks are supposed to be

How pranks are supposed to beNyxiesPuppet

These men are the biggest jerks. They're considered criminals too.

These men are the biggest jerks. They're considered criminals too.bean_town_kappa

What goes on in the minds of the "macho" family members.

What goes on in the minds of the Turtlelover73, zombie_Leghumpr

They're the worst human beings if they're going to wait for things to worsen.

They're the worst human beings if they're going to wait for things to worsen.Intelligent_Sundae_5

These guys obviously don't know what could potentially happen to people with asthma.

These guys obviously don't know what could potentially happen to people with asthma.DarkElla30

These guys didn't even think about the consequences. All they care about is testing his manliness.

These guys didn't even think about the consequences. All they care about is testing his manliness.Redhead_2022

Involve the law so that they'll learn their lesson.

Involve the law so that they'll learn their lesson.tonysvanstrom

The woman's family jeopardized her fiancé's health. They probably need to face charges for that as well.

The woman's family jeopardized her fiancé's health. They probably need to face charges for that as well.ImFairlyLocal

Redditors are completely on the original poster's side.

Redditors are completely on the original poster's side.ImFairlyLocal

How the woman should respond

How the woman should respondAfter-Maximum8975

An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.

An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.Sapper12D

Maybe it's time to consider uninviting her mother as well.

Maybe it's time to consider uninviting her mother as well.Ruval

It's like the guy went through fraternity hazing.

It's like the guy went through fraternity hazing.jess-the_mess

This redditor believes that the men deserve more than just being uninvited.

This redditor believes that the men deserve more than just being uninvited.DiTrastevere

These men are indeed criminals.

These men are indeed criminals.maybenomaybe

Some redditors believe it's attempted murder.

Some redditors believe it's attempted murder.Viscaria_ASMR

Perhaps she needs bouncers for these unruly men.

Perhaps she needs bouncers for these unruly men.Hulkemo

It's pretty obvious who the a**holes are in this situation.

It's pretty obvious who the a**holes are in this situation.PikesPique

They'll probably only learn their lesson once there are serious consequences.

They'll probably only learn their lesson once there are serious consequences.scraffe

The men in the original poster's family are hands down the ones at fault here.

In most places, it is considered a misdemeanor when someone slashes tires. And the misdeeds of these men don't stop there.

For the sake of proving that the fiancé is man enough, they put him through a test that could cause a medical emergency. Clearly, these men haven't learned their lesson after being uninvited to the original poster's wedding.

We hope that the woman can protect her husband-to-be from the villainy of these ignorant men.

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