40 Married People Share Things They Are Constantly Fighting Over With Their Spouses
Every marriage in the world has one of these… What’s yours?
Conflict is unavoidable in any long-term relationship, whether we like it or not. Almost everyone is aware that finding someone with whom you can be entirely honest has its ups and downs, revealing the most irritating behaviors imaginable.
Most of these issues, no matter how annoying they may be, are small and can be ignored. However, sometimes they can cause larger problems in a relationship.
Unfortunately, partners frequently lose control and become enraged over trivial matters. But that's always a sign of some more serious hidden problem.
Rabia Chaudry, an attorney and author, set out on a mission to find the most ridiculous and pointless arguments that married couples "simply can't, won't stop having." Her Twitter thread rapidly blew up, with people spilling their guts about their husbands' most vexing habits, which had caused them to quarrel for years.
Every marriage has issues they continuously return to because both sides refuse to back down, from never squeezing out the sponge to refusing to fully close the drawers. Continue reading because we've chosen some of the thread's funniest replies.
Take a look; maybe some of these stories will remind you of your partner. Or you may even realize that your partner is not that annoying at all...
rabiasquared
1. Different priorities.
taracarea2. Shopping list might be the answer
rabiasquared
3. Oh, that sponge...
hasnurse
4. Just snoozing...
r_johnson83
5. Every house should have fruit...
rabiasquared
6. Drawers...
Digsk9rescue
7. Unfinished projects...
Astraea_Muse
8. Amazing things he didn't want to buy...
ElainNainNaine
9. Any minute now...
jdbatts79
10. Night owl
d_lesa
11. Having cups of water around brings him peace of mind...
rabiasquared
12. Kids do that too. But they are kids...
californiabuck
13. Keep it open
Jenny6345789
14. Clothes next to the basket
Mama2Bre_
15. Yes, completely okay...
pastorterry56
16. Soap hoarding
rabiasquared
17. Such a barbarian...
ShrinkingVyolet
18. Write it down if you can't remember
rabiasquared
19. Eat the whole thing...
prariegirl4201
20. Passive-aggressive
qwrrty
21. Just need a minute...
ChanclaSurvivor
22. Do not lick the spoon!
RykerStephenson
23. Compromise?
sheologian
24. Mumbling...
rabiasquared
25. What's for dinner?
RobWeatherhead
26. Well, these are serious issues. And they are worth fighting over.
SqueeTV
27. Empty boxes...
amy_4211
28. That's a marriage-breaker...
EthickingStacie
29. Why? Why?
themerriest
30. Fill up the tank!
linluv5
31. That's plain mean
magsxx
32. The soap is dead. No more. Leave it be...
FahrinK
33. Making a cup collection upstairs...
dtbbythesea
34. Straight answers are so boring...
MdotCOT
35. Disgusting
PurpleQueenNL
36. Loofah doesn't work for me... That's for girls...
rabiasquared
37. Wait until some of the water drains away from your body, man...
amanda_fallon
38. Good for you...
Xanboni
39. Look and ask before you throw it away...
chica_en_bici
40. Every time
Ebuka
The post in question, which has over 19K likes, demonstrated that even the most inane things can irritate couples all over the world. Hundreds of comments on this thread were about home activities that were not handled properly.
At least in the eyes of their partner. Whether you're in a committed relationship or planning a wedding, sharing a space with your partner is sure to be a challenge.
That's why you have to be prepared for it. And, most importantly, find a person with whom you can laugh, even when they squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, like a barbarian...
