Husband Keeps Using Family Cups As Snot Containers And Sparks A Household Meltdown

What do you do when your spouse uses cups as tissues?

About a year ago, this woman thought she had seen the worst. Her husband had been sick and, instead of using tissues or even a trash can, he chose one of their kids’ Easter baskets to spit snot into.

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Not only that, he tucked it under their bed and forgot it for a week. She discovered it, gagged on sight, threw it away immediately, and told him it was disgusting. To her surprise, he got mad and called her an a**hole, insisting the basket was washable, like that made it okay.

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Fast-forward to now. She walks into the bedroom and spots a cup on his nightstand. Something about it feels off. She asks if he spat snot into it, and he casually says yes, like this is totally normal behavior. She barely makes it out of the room before gagging again.

She texts him because she literally can’t talk about it without retching. She tells him that using cups for snot is nasty, she doesn’t ever want to drink from a cup he’s done that with, and she plans to replace all their cups and buy him his own bottle.

This means that if he needs to spit in something, he can spit in his own bottle from now on. Well, just like last time, her husband blows up, calls her an a**hole again, and leaves the house.

Now, she’s left wondering how many cups he’s secretly made unusable and whether she’s overreacting or just protecting her sanity and her stomach.

Scroll through the screenshots below and see how it all went down.

Let’s dig into the details

Let’s dig into the detailsReddit.com
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A bit of background

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Recently, she found out her husband was spitting his snot into a cup on his nightstand

Recently, she found out her husband was spitting his snot into a cup on his nightstandReddit.com

She scolded her husband for doing something she termed “disgusting.” But he only got pissed, as he doesn’t agree that he’s done anything wrong

She scolded her husband for doing something she termed “disgusting.” But he only got pissed, as he doesn’t agree that he’s done anything wrongReddit.com

We gathered some interesting comments from the Reddit community

We gathered some interesting comments from the Reddit communityReddit.com

“NTA. I could maybe get past the cup, but the kids Easter basket is disgusting.”

“NTA. I could maybe get past the cup, but the kids Easter basket is disgusting.”Reddit.com

“My husband used to do this and one time I drank out of it thinking it was water.”

“My husband used to do this and one time I drank out of it thinking it was water.”Reddit.com

“That's absolutely disgusting and really sounds like he's doing it so you will find it and be upset.”

“That's absolutely disgusting and really sounds like he's doing it so you will find it and be upset.”Reddit.com

“The pettiness in me would get a Costco membership just for the bulk tissues.”

“The pettiness in me would get a Costco membership just for the bulk tissues.”Reddit.com

“He needs to grow up and use a tissue like a decent human being.”

“He needs to grow up and use a tissue like a decent human being.”Reddit.com

“If he's worried about being wasteful do it in a handkerchief that you wash or SOMETHING. Not a cup.”

“If he's worried about being wasteful do it in a handkerchief that you wash or SOMETHING. Not a cup.”Reddit.com

“NTA, but you’re overreacting threatening to throw all the cups away. That’s his drama.”

“NTA, but you’re overreacting threatening to throw all the cups away. That’s his drama.”Reddit.com

The overwhelming majority of Redditors are extremely disgusted by reading this story. Worst of all, it has triggered a few other people to share their personal experiences in the comments.

Everyone is definitely on the same page: Her husband needs to stop immediately and fix up!

Redditors have urged her to sit him down and have a proper hygiene conversation where rules will be put in place to stamp out such habits, permanently.

Right now, though, it feels like a real standoff. But hopefully, he realizes the gravity of his actions.

We’d love to get your thoughts on this story, especially if you have a better solution to this problem.

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