Bride-To-Be Furious When Anti-Marriage Sister Announces Engagement To Steal Her Spotlight

The months of planning that precede a wedding are undoubtedly filled with stressful events for any engaged couple. You have a budget that keeps getting smaller and you have to deal with significant expenses all the time.

You have to balance your own desires for the wedding with the expectations of your family and society, not to mention that you both still have lives to live after the ceremony. Given everything that is going on, it is understandable why it is so easy to feel overwhelmed when planning a wedding.

After all, who would blame you? It's just difficult to plan a wedding but still, the OP of today's story ended up fighting with her sister over it.

OP's sister Kayla was married at 23 and divorced at 30. She got a new boyfriend pretty much immediately after the papers were finalized, and they've been together ever since.

The OP doesn't like surprises, so her now husband revealed he was going to propose at her birthday party. OP told her four bridesmaids then, including her sister.

Before then, Kayla had said that she would never marry again, but a week before OP's party, guess who announced her boyfriend had proposed? You guessed right, and that was just the beginning.

The full story lies below, so keep scrolling down to check it out.

Here's the headline

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OP's sister is still mad about a fight they had right before her wedding

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Kayla surprised the family by announcing her boyfriend had proposed Christmas Day

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According to Kayla, this was mortifying and shameful

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"Go down to the courthouse an hour before the ceremony and get married on the exact same day"

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It's a year later, and the sister is threatening to not invite OP to her wedding

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

I'm the AH because I quite literally told my sister I don't care when she gets married

And the comments roll in...

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She just wanted to pick a fight with the OP

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For this Redditor, OP's not the AH

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OP's sister is just mad she's not upset

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She just wants to be the center of attention

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She bought her own shut up ring

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She kept asking follow up questions

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It seems her boyfriend isn't ready to be married

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She clearly hates indifference and being ignored

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This Redditor doubts the second marriage will last long

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This Redditor believes OP's sister is a lunatic

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OP's sister is just mad she didn't care

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OP clearly didn't fall for her sister's game

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"I got married too and am happy"

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This Redditor believes OP's sister was baiting her

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Yes, a lot of work, financial strain, and the emotional burden of making important choices make wedding planning difficult. Budgeting, controlling expectations from friends and family, organizing suppliers, and the pressure to have a "perfect" event are some of the things that cause this stress.

Redditors understood this and you can tell from the "not the AH" verdict that they didn't blame the OP for the fight. Drop your own verdict in the comments below and share as well.