Mom Cuts Communication With Daughter After She Said No, "For Once"

We will always be our parents' children. Even if you turn the world upside down, this will always remain a fact. 

They raised and guided us for so long until they see us stand on our own feet, but that does not mean they are in charge of our lives. Yes, we owe our parents, but they can never control us forever.

Reddit user u/ClumsyYeti's story perfectly depicts this. This 30-year-old woman, who has suffered from anxiety and depression, has lived with her parents for a long time.

When she finally got her job, she rented a "dump" room for a few months in a different town but later moved to another place closer to work. Her parents drove some of her belongings to her new apartment.

She refused to move the furniture to the spot her mom suggested, and her mom began throwing tantrums. She criticized her for leaving the toothbrush in a cup (in the bathroom) and called her a "pig" who is near eviction.

Her parents have been fighting in front of her door. Her mom even tried to smoke (she said no to this), which is among the prohibitions listed in the contract.

That's when her mom began to cut communications with her. Check what advice the community has given her.

Here is what she posted on Reddit:

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She explained what her mom tried to do to control her.

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Then the mom threatened not to help her anymore.

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She's unsure about what to do as her mom isn't talking to her anymore.

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She must never invite her parents to her home again as they have shown that they can't behave.

via: sometimesitsbullshit

There's nothing else to do but enjoy the peace.

via: Daralundy2020

Her mother appears upset because she's no longer under her control.

via: Dreadedhead

The mom's throwing a childish tantrum as she can't control her daughter anymore.

via: XELA38

OP should take a break from her explosive and controlling mom.

via: theTeach78

She needs to relax and enjoy her space. She should read books on boundaries.

via: Chrysania83

Good thing she didn't give either of them a copy of her keys.

via: skydiamond01

She needs to cut every tie she has with her parents.

via: Rhondin265

Her mom is too immature to respect others. She must stand her ground as she did nothing wrong.

via: stormwaterwitch

Her mom expects her to beg for forgiveness because she dared to remind her who's the boss in her home.

via: BabserellaWT

She should inform the landlord that no one else is allowed entrance to the apartment without her permission.

via: corgi_freak

It looks like a win.

via: dyvrom

Her "trash" took herself out!

via: imnotaloneyouare

The mom wants her to come running back begging. She should do nothing but enjoy her new home.

via: SniperGG

Not having her parents ever again is a good idea for her mental health and kindness to her neighbors.

via: RedWingnMD

Her house, her rules!

via: AMerrickanGirl

The mom's being crazy. She should drop the rope!

via: Blinktoe

The mom is childish.

via: pocapractica

That's blatant disrespect and emotional manipulation.

via: shell-1980

She should ignore her mom and not allow herself to be under her control.

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The majority has said that it is clear the mom wanted to regain control over her by doing all those things. She's no longer a teenager; she's even 30 and is entitled to have a life of her own, free from the control of her parents.

It is only right for her to enjoy her peace. She must savor her freedom.