Redditor Gets Long-Overdue Revenge On Neighbor By Preventing Them From Getting High-Speed Internet
“No way I’m letting them run lines over my property, not after what they did to me!”
Some people don’t recognize a favor, and OP’s neighbor is the perfect example. The whole thing started as a favor for a high-speed internet upgrade, then turned into a years-long property-line grudge.
Here’s the messy part: OP worked out a deal to run a high-speed internet line through their neighbor’s property to their own home, but the neighbor refused to sign up. Years later, the neighbor decided they wanted their own installation, and of course it needed to cross OP’s property.
OP didn’t just say no, they made it hurt in the same way.
Let’s dig into the details
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Reddit.comRevenge and Its Psychological Roots
The desire for revenge often stems from feelings of betrayal and injustice. Revenge can be seen as a way to restore a perceived balance after being wronged. This need to retaliate can be driven by deep-seated emotions related to fairness and control, particularly when individuals feel powerless in a situation.
In this case, the resident’s actions against their neighbor may reflect a broader psychological response to feeling mistreated, demonstrating how unresolved conflicts can manifest in retaliatory behaviors.
OP worked out a deal to run a high-speed internet line through their neighbor’s property to their home. However, the neighbor declined to sign up
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OP eventually went through with their plans, but in a more difficult way. Years later, their neighbor decided to make their own installation, which needed to run through OP’s property. You best believe OP gave them a taste of their own medicine.
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The deal OP offered for a high-speed line through the neighbor’s property got shut down fast, so the neighbor never got the “nice” version of OP twice.
Research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology highlights that revenge can provide a short-term sense of satisfaction but often fails to resolve underlying issues. This can lead to a cycle of ongoing conflict and negativity that perpetuates feelings of animosity between neighbors.
Understanding the psychology behind revenge can help individuals recognize the potential long-term consequences of their actions and encourage them to pursue healthier resolutions.
OP’s neighbor kept pleading, but OP stood firm on their decision
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OP added some additional information
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Years later, when the neighbor came back pleading because their own installation needed to run through OP’s property, OP stood firm.
It’s the same kind of fallout as a friend getting furious after being denied a share of a $10K lottery win.
Constructive Alternatives to Revenge
To break the cycle of revenge, individuals might consider alternative approaches to conflict resolution. Instead of focusing on retaliation, the resident could engage in dialogue with their neighbor to address grievances directly and seek a more amicable resolution.
By fostering understanding and cooperation, individuals can work towards solutions that respect both parties' rights and promote positive relationships.
The final bit
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Check out some of the most upvoted comments:
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OP basically flipped the script by forcing the neighbor to deal with the exact kind of roadblock they used on OP.
Additionally, focusing on emotional regulation is crucial in navigating feelings of anger and resentment.
“NTA. What comes around goes around.”
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“You're only treating the neighbor the same way he treated you.”
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Now the neighbor is stuck staring at their own refusal, while OP gets to keep control of the line they already had to fight for.
Redditors were strongly on OP’s side. OP gave the neighbors a wonderful offer in the past that could have benefited both homes, but they stubbornly rejected it. Now, they’re getting a taste of their own medicine. Good luck to them and their DSL.
Do you agree with this verdict? Let us know in the comments.
“They were happy with their DSL until they saw you basically set up infrastructure they could piggyback off of.”
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“NTA. They had a great opportunity you offered in the past.”
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This situation underscores the intricate dynamics of revenge and the conflicts that arise from long-standing grievances.
The neighbor wanted high-speed internet without signing anything, and now they’re learning what that costs.
Want more internet-fueled drama? Read what a roommate did after refusing to split the upgraded modem bill.
