Online Community Is Cracking Up Over How A Redditor Dealt With His Son's Roommate Who Feels Entitled To His Family's Netflix Account
He calls the roommate a Netflix freeloader.
A Redditor’s family Netflix password turned into a full-blown drama, and the comments are losing it. The post reads like a sitcom setup: one entitled stranger, one family account, and one very petty text exchange that spiraled fast.
OP’s son had apparently been living with a roommate who felt totally comfortable treating the family Netflix like it was part of his rent. When OP finally found out, he corrected the guy’s grammar in the message, then got hit with a “F*** you.” The weird part is how the roommate still tried to chase the password like OP owed him access to the rest of the series.
And once the wife’s reaction got mentioned, the whole thread basically combusted.
"My son failed to inform me that his ex-roommate was a Netflix freeloader."
RedditThe original poster (OP) correcting the roommate's grammar was such a clever response.
We just hope that the "F*** you" was the last message from this entitled guy.
RedditIt's funny how the guy, who's a complete stranger to the OP, thought he could still get the password.
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OP’s son didn’t even warn him about the Netflix freeloader, so when the “F*** you” showed up, it felt extra personal.
Entitlement and Social Norms
The situation with the Netflix account highlights issues of entitlement that are increasingly prevalent in shared living arrangements.
Social psychologists suggest that expectations around shared resources can often lead to conflict, particularly when individuals feel entitled to benefits without contributing.
Research shows that perceptions of fairness play a significant role in how individuals navigate these situations, often leading to feelings of resentment when unfairness is perceived.
It makes you wonder how this choosing beggar would react if the OP responded with spoilers.
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The wife is too kind. Fortunately, the wife's cousin wasn't as entitled as the OP's roommate.
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Users poking fun at the roommate's attempt to watch the rest of Altered Carbon.
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The roommate acted like a random text from a stranger was no big deal, even though he was asking for the password like it was guaranteed.
This also echoes the argument over whether to cut off a friend who never repays the debt, in the WIBTA debate about stopping financial help.
This lack of cooperation can often lead to a breakdown in communication and a sense of exploitation, resulting in further conflict.
Would he have been successful if the guy didn't swear and pretended to be a gal instead?
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The OP explains how the roommate got his number.
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Apparently, there are so many Netflix freeloaders out there.
This user has had the same experience as the OP.
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People in the thread started riffing on what OP could have done next, like sending spoilers instead of being polite.
By the time the wife and the cousin got compared to this entitled guy, everyone realized this wasn’t just about Netflix, it was about basic manners.
Promoting Fairness in Shared Spaces
This proactive approach can foster a sense of fairness and reduce feelings of entitlement among roommates.
A simple solution would be to pay for his own Netflix account. But the roommate's entitlement got the better of him.
It's crazy how entitled people can get. Imagine receiving a text from a stranger all because they want to get your password and finish the series they're watching.
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Nowadays, people don't have to worry about freeloaders because of Netflix's crackdown on password sharing. And since people can only share within a household, he won't have to worry about his son's entitled roommates again.
So, if you come across entitled people like this, the OP's tactic is the perfect way to deal with them. He's assertive and straightforward yet polite.
And if they pull the rude card on you, remind them that manners are free, but Netflix isn't.
The recent uproar over a Redditor's approach to his son's roommate highlights the complexities of entitlement in shared living situations. When resources like a family Netflix account become points of contention, it is crucial to recognize the underlying psychological dynamics that fuel these disputes. By addressing expectations upfront, individuals can navigate these tricky scenarios with greater ease, potentially transforming a source of tension into an opportunity for mutual understanding.
Nobody wants to get cursed out over a password, especially when the guy was freeloading in the first place.
For another Netflix-level boundary fight, see how this parent handled expectations after moving back home.