A Redditor Told Their Mom That They Don't Have An Internal Monologue And She Freaked Out

A Reddit post about not having an internal monologue quickly turned into a bigger conversation about how differently people experience their own minds. For the original poster, the surprise came from a family reaction, especially after her mom heard that she does not hear a running voice in her head and could not believe it.

That simple confession opened the door to a flood of comments from Redditors who either related to OP or could not imagine thinking without constant narration. Some described aphantasia, others compared their minds to silence, and a few admitted they were shocked that this was even possible.

What started as a family conversation ended up feeling like a debate over two very different ways of being human.

The Original Question and Post

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At First, People Were Confused That There Might Be a Lack of Narration in OP's Mind

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They Were Conflicted About How It Actually Works

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There Were Redditors That Provided Further Explanation

Common_Lizard

They Also Specified That It's Something Called Aphantasia

NavyAnchor03

One of the Downsides of Having No Inner Monologue Is the Effort to Communicate Your Thoughts Properly

BobbitWormJoe

An Example of the Comment Above from the Same Redditor

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Never Being Nervous About Who Would Play Your Favorite Book Character in a Movie Is Pretty Cool

mataeka

Aphantasia Exceeds More Than Not Having an Inner Monologue

searek

It Can Differ Per Person Who Has It Which Senses Are Most Affected

MK23TECHNO

A Continuation of the Comment Above

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This also echoes the AITA fight where someone refused their partner’s pet adoption dream.

If Daydreaming Seems Like a Superpower, Then There'd Be a League of It

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A Continuation of the Comment Above

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Dreams Do Exist for People Who Have Aphantasia; It's Just a Bit Different from What People Are Used To

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Another Metaphor of How It Feels to Have Aphantasia

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A Continuation of the Metaphor

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The Other Side of the Coin

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This Is a Case That Is Hard to Solve

sloonark

If a Person Has Aphantasia, It Doesn't Mean That They Can't Get Involved in Creative Activities

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A Continuation of the Comment Above, Explaining the Struggle of Visualizing

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The Redditor from This Comment Can Still Do Various Jobs, but with Limitations to Imagining

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On the Other Hand, the Ability to Have Quietness Is What People with Noisy Inner Monologues Would Consider a Superpower

Shanakitty

A Personal Podcast with No Pause Button

Haloosinayeshun

Would It Still Be Considered Inner Monologue If It's Out Loud?

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Many Have Shared Their Answers, but the Majority Were People Who Are the Opposite of OP

PlaysWithPaint

Sometimes There Isn't Just One Narrator; They're a Whole Group Rotating in Shifts

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A Plain and Simple Answer from One of the Redditors

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Unfortunately, There Are Some Friends Who Would Talk to You Non-Stop Even If You Want a Little Break

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This Is Probably OP's Mom's Thought When She Found Out About OP's Non-Existent Inner Monologue

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Whether it's a whole crowd of voices in your head that exist or nothingness, there's always a positive point on each side. One might think that what they have is a curse, while the other would consider it a superpower.

It would do wonders for people to empathize with each other when they can't understand what someone is experiencing. Who knows, you might learn more beyond the shock.

Do you have an inner monologue, or are you like OP? Share with us in the comments.

After the mom freak-out, you have to see the roommate who banned a noisy parrot to stop apartment chaos.