Should I have asked my boss to pay my full wages after making a mistake at work?

A 28-year-old software developer thought a minor coding slip was just that, a minor slip. It turns out his boss, Sarah, treated it like a career-ending sin. Not because the product was destroyed, but because the mistake reflected on the team, at least in her eyes.

Here’s where it gets messy. Sarah is known for strict, perfectionist standards, and she’s also quick to point out errors without giving credit for the hard work that comes before and after. After OP made a coding mistake that caused a small issue, Sarah warned him that continued errors would make the team look bad. Then payday hit, and his check was suddenly way lower, thanks to a penalty deducted by Sarah.

Now OP is stuck wondering if he overstepped by asking for his full wages back, even though Sarah is reconsidering it.

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I (28M) work as a software developer at a small startup. Recently, I made a mistake in my code that caused a minor issue in our product.

My boss, Sarah, was not happy about it and she mentioned that if I continue making such errors, it could reflect poorly on the team. For context, Sarah has a reputation for being strict and demanding perfection.

She values attention to detail and excellence in our work. However, she is also known for sometimes being overly critical and quick to point out mistakes without acknowledging the hard work we put in.

Despite this, I have always done my best to meet her expectations and deliver quality work. Last month, when it was time for our salaries to be paid, I noticed that my paycheck was significantly lower than usual.

After checking with HR, I found out that Sarah had deducted a portion of my wages as a penalty for the mistake I made in the code. Feeling frustrated and unfairly penalized, I decided to confront Sarah about it.

I explained that while I understand the importance of accuracy in our work, I believe that docking my pay for a single mistake was harsh, especially considering my overall performance and dedication to the company. I requested that my full salary be reinstated.

Sarah seemed taken aback by my request and reiterated the importance of accountability and quality in our work. She mentioned that the deduction was a form of disciplinary action to ensure we maintain high standards.

However, she also acknowledged that my track record has been strong, and she would reconsider her decision. Now, I'm left wondering if I overstepped by asking for my full wages back.

So AITA?

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That “minor issue” in the product quickly turned into a full-on wage drama once Sarah decided to dock OP’s paycheck for the mistake.

This is similar to the situation where neighbors secretly dealt with a cat rehoming after property damage. Read the AITA story.

When OP confronted Sarah after HR confirmed the deduction, the conversation shifted from “accountability” to “why is my salary getting punished?”

Sarah acted shocked that OP asked for his full wages reinstated, even though she already admitted his track record has been strong.

Now OP is waiting on Sarah’s reconsideration, replaying the whole thing in his head and wondering if asking for his money back was the real mistake.

What do you think about this situation? Let us know in the comments.

Nobody wants to work for free, especially when the “discipline” shows up on payday.

Want another ultimatum showdown? See how one partner tried to force a cat rehome. Here’s the conflict.