Should I Have Told My Boss About Being Moved to Another Team Already?

A simple 1:1 turned into a workplace landmine for OP, the kind where one “I already knew” comment can get weaponized later.

First, a colleague told them they were being moved to a new department. Then OP’s boss confirmed it was official, and OP casually blurted out that the colleague had already mentioned it, plus they had even told the department head a month earlier that the move made sense. The twist? The boss and that colleague are on bad terms, so the boss used OP’s slip to attack the colleague for supposedly sharing confidential information.

In the end, the meeting was about OP’s position, but the fallout was aimed at everyone else.

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At work, I had a 1:1 meeting with a colleague who told me I am being moved to a new department. After some time, I had a meeting with my boss who told me it is official.

I blurted out that the other colleague had already mentioned it, because I really believed it isn't a big deal I already knew and that is the reason I am not surprised by the move. Furthermore, I had told the department head a month before the meeting with the colleague I think moving me would make sense.

My boss is on bad terms with the colleague so he used it to attack my colleague by saying he spread confidential information. Things is, I didn't think it matters in this situation and I really didn't know the information is so sensitive - in the end, we spoke about *my* position and *my* job.

I hadn't informed anybody prior to this they are considering moving me to another team. I did not do it out of malice or spite, I just considered a done deal.

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This is also like the project report fight where someone didn’t share recognition despite a coworker’s early help.

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OP thought the colleague’s heads-up was no big deal, right up until the boss turned it into a “confidential info” accusation during their meeting.

The fact that OP had told the department head a month earlier only made the whole timeline messier, because now everyone’s motives are being questioned.

Since OP clarified they only meant their own move and job, the conversation shifted, but the boss still kept using the colleague as the target.

Now OP is stuck watching the fallout while they get considered for another team, even though they swear they didn’t do it to start drama.

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OP didn’t mean to expose anyone, but they still got caught in a power struggle they didn’t even start.

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