Men Share 30 Things Women Might Not Know About Them

In a world where stereotypes and preconceptions often cloud our judgment, it's essential to remember the age-old saying, "Never judge a book by its cover." This wisdom extends beyond gender boundaries and holds for everyone, including men. In this post, we delve into the hidden depths of men's lives, shedding light on the more sensitive aspects they rarely get a chance to discuss openly.

Stereotypes about men can be quite pervasive. We might imagine them as boorish, nose-picking, public-transport-burping, people-disrespecting individuals. However, these stereotypes are far from being exclusive to any gender. Men, like women, encompass a diverse range of experiences, emotions, and sensitivities.

In recent times, some men have taken it upon themselves to challenge these stereotypes and share their personal stories and experiences with the world through the power of the internet. They're breaking down the walls of masculinity that society often constructs around them.

One of the lighter topics that these men have opened up about is urinal etiquette. While this may seem trivial, it's humorous that even seemingly mundane aspects of life can be a source of intrigue and conversation. Sharing these anecdotes helps humanize men, showing that they, too engage in the ordinary and quirky facets of daily life.

1. every Tuesday night we have a secret meeting where we decide how to best maintain the patriarchy, other than that, not much. "

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2. Behold, a captivating compilation!

"Some of these come up pretty frequently, but it's still helpful for women to be aware of them I guess. Here's a non-exhaustive list (on mobile so sorry if i screw up the formatting) :When I say I'm thinking about "nothing", I'm serious. My brain was off, it's just static up there or random scenes from movies.Most of us are acutely aware of how scared women are of men, and we all do our best to minimize that fear for you. My run yesterday around the loop in my park? Gotta be going the opposite direction as the women who were rollerblading so they can see me coming the whole way, don't make eye contact so I don't come off as creepy, etc.I actually like interacting with kids. They're insane and goofy, say crazy things, and are fun to interact with. No, I'm not a p**o, I'm just treating them like the tiny humans they are and they deserve attention.Fruity drinks taste awesome and I want to order them. Those little umbrellas and cool straws are the s**t.Yes, we are all mentally 16 and will giggle about any number of stupid things.Compliments live rent free in our heads forever. My favorite shirt is my favorite because a cute girl told me she loved the color and it looks good on me...4 years ago.Saying "she's cute" does NOT mean I am actively trying to get with her, it's just an observation.We like specifics. "The trash is full" is an observation, and we will agree with you. Our brain did not hear "please take out the trash" like you intended us to.My last point can be changed with thorough training and a lot of patience and clarifying expectations.Dear God, just tell us where you want to eat or what you want as a Christmas present. Most of us suck at those guessing games, even if we really try, and we just want to get you what is actually going to make you happy."DM_Me_Your_Sexy_Side

3. Caring partner

"Not a dude, but I have a husband. I feel like the best thing he needs when he comes home is a big a*s hug. Doesn't matter if it was a rough day or long day or neither. He needs a hug. I like cooking dinner for my husband so something warm or comforting is waiting for him too. Even if it's left overs. He loves his back scratched, so I'll do that for him or scratch his head. We will sit in silence sometimes while he scrolls on his phone to decompress, than we chat and we put on the TV or go for a walk. I feel like it's the simple things that matter a lot to him. I was very intent on knowing who my husband was and what he wanted when we were dating. I try to encompass those things naturally. I will tell him I love him randomly. I tell him he looks good when he goes to work and when he is just lounging. It melts his heart and I can tell.Its a lot of fun living with a man and seeing the natural differences that are their norms. Breaks my heart when I see perfectly good men treated like garbage. I mean if he is trash, it's different but most people are just trying their best and I think the small things I do for my husband mean a lot to him."pinkdragonlily

Understanding Men's Emotional Experiences

Men often navigate a complex landscape of emotions, influenced by societal norms that discourage vulnerability. Dr. David Kilmartin, an expert in men's psychology, points out that many men feel pressured to conform to traditional masculine ideals, often leading to emotional suppression.

This suppression can hinder emotional intimacy and connection in relationships, as men may struggle to articulate their feelings or needs.

4. "LEGO Isn't just for kids "

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5. "We really have no control over what we do in your dreams. "

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6. "We're kinda like dogs. Things in front of me get attention, if I don't burn enough energy I get zoomies, my behavior piques when I am offered food, use brief and explicit instructions or I will look at you funny trying to figure what you really want, and I love naps on the couch "

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Research in the Journal of Men’s Studies indicates that men who openly discuss their emotions tend to have healthier relationships and greater emotional satisfaction. In this context, sharing insights about their experiences can help bridge gaps in understanding between genders.

By expressing their emotional experiences, men can foster deeper connections with their partners and improve relationship dynamics.

7. "You'll find communicating with guys is a lot easier if you just are direct and open about what you want. "

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8. "We NEVER know when you like us. I'm 48. Looking back. I f****d up so much"

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9. "That big sigh my wife just asked about while we’re watching the 10 o’clock news? Nothing profound, nothing bugging me, I just remembered to breathe. "

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The Power of Vulnerability

Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, particularly in men, but Dr. Brené Brown, a leading researcher on vulnerability, argues that it is a source of strength. Her research indicates that embracing vulnerability can lead to greater authenticity and connection in relationships.

Men who are willing to share their vulnerabilities create space for intimacy and trust, which can transform their relationships.

10. "Please for the love of god let us know if you’re into us. Don’t wait for us to tell you first because we won’t because we don’t want to be called creeps. "

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11. "Dudes can be friends for years and not know each others real name "

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12. "No. I'm not going to the gym to hit on "b*****s" or get into shape to be attractive to other women. I'm just tired of almost passing out every time I bend over to tie my shoes."

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To promote emotional connection, men can benefit from creating safe spaces where they can express their feelings without fear of judgment. Engaging in activities that encourage open dialogue and emotional sharing can lead to richer relationships and improved emotional health.

13. "We like compliments. If you compliment a guy he might remember it for years. … and then he might think you’re into him because we never receive compliments but that is an entirely new issue"

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14. "If you let me lie in your lap and you run your fingers through my hair and stroke my face, I’ll say “yes” to whatever you propose "

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15. "The day before a very close girl (friend) of mine gave me a flower. I can barely explain how amazing that made me feel. I almost cried. Needless to say that memeory has a golden spot in my brain. just remember girls that we are humans as well, and EVERY, i mean it EVERY man seeks this feeling."

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16. "I like being childish and if I trust you enough I will be childish around you. I always forget things but I really try to remember them. We have days where we want to be left alone with peace and quiet'

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17. "When you ask us a question, often times we'll quickly respond with "huh?". It's not that we didn't hear you, cause we did. We're just buffering to give you an adequate answer."

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18. "Sometimes, that male confidence that you find attractive is us totally faking it while shaking on the inside, insecure AF. "

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19. "If it looks like im ignoring you im probably just so deep in thought that i forgot i actually exist "

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20. "We're not necessarily watching p**n when we're in the bathroom for an hour. We may just be on Reddit and lose track of the time. "

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21. "Those memes that are like Women: I wonder what he's thinking about Man: *dumbest s**t ever to be thought about* Are far more true than you think BUT it could also be the complete opposite, they could be thinking the deepest most philisophical s**t ever too. Either way their answer will be "nothing""

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22. "When you explain or rant my brain is telling me how to fix it.... And yes I'm listening but this is how you fix that problem. Edit: well, I've dunnit, alot of men are helping me with my problem too, and women aren't too happy about how I didn't really listen."

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23. "We have an entire language around the headnod "

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24. "We pick the urinal we pee in carefully. "

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25. "We forgot how to cry at some point early in our lives. "

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26. When girls come over to a guy's place. The guy usually cleans up his place like the Tasmanian Devil 1- 2 hours before she comes over. ""

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27. "We fear we are loved for our value and not for who we are. "

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28. "We don’t want to tell you certain things are worrying us because we dont want you to worry also… now there’s just two people worrying, where as before, one was worrying, and the other was happy, which is a reminder to us not to worry so much "

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29. "Having the feeling everybody hates me. Or is it just me? "

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30. "He didn’t scratch his nose. He was smelling his finger.” - Revelations 17:38 "

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These stories of men baring their souls on the internet remind us that beneath the surface, there's always more to a person than meets the eye. Men, just like women, grapple with a myriad of emotions, experiences, and challenges.

By opening up and sharing their stories, they contribute to breaking down stereotypes and fostering a more inclusive and empathetic society. So, let's remember never to judge a person, man or woman, by stereotypes, and instead, take the time to discover their lives.

Psychological Analysis

This article reflects the intricate dynamics of men's emotional experiences and societal pressures. Encouraging open discussions about feelings can enhance relationships and foster deeper connections.

Creating safe spaces for vulnerability is essential for cultivating healthy emotional expression among men.

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Analysis & Alternative Approaches

Understanding men's emotional experiences is crucial for fostering healthy relationships. By encouraging vulnerability and open communication, men can create deeper connections with their partners.

Ultimately, embracing emotional expression can lead to greater relationship satisfaction and improved mental health.