Emotionally Manipulate Dad Or Forsake Sister's Dream College - Lady From A Broken Home Seeks Advice

DNA tests has led to so many broken homes and in most cases, the results reveal that a husband is not the biological father of his child or children. The discovery of paternity fraud often destroys the foundational trust of a marriage.

Some men find it deeply painful to learn they have been raising another man's child for years. The emotional fallout is often severe, involving feelings of betrayal, anger and humiliation.

For some men, this trauma is insurmountable and leads to the immediate dissolution of the marriage. The wife, if guilty, may face intense backlash but if innocent, she may feel insulted by the lack of trust, which can also be grounds for divorce.

Children may feel torn between parents, experiencing guilt or anxiety when expressing affection or happiness in one home, fearing it will hurt or upset the other parent. For the OP of today's story, DNA test confirmed a devastating reality: neither OP nor her twin sister were the biological daughters of the man who had raised them.

The revelation plunged their family into chaos as their mother left their dad for the biological father. OP's twin chose to follow but she stayed with her heartbroken dad struggling to rebuild his life.

While her mother reveled in perceived victory, predicting hardship and homelessness for OP, she watched her father sacrifice his savings to provide for her and pay for therapy. Little did OP's mother know, this struggle period was simply the precursor to a quiet, powerful comeback.

This story entails a comeback that would redefine loyalty, test the bonds of sisterhood, and expose the true cost of betrayal

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"Enjoy it while it lasts, you'll come crying to me when he makes you homeless"

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OP's mom didn't want her bad influence on the sister so they were low contact

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She demanded he add the required amount of money to the sister's college fund and a bit more

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She wants the OP to give up a bit of her fund so both of them could atleast have an equal amount

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

I feel like I'm the AH because I know me and my sister have dreamed of going to this university for a long time but never thought we could. Now I can go and she can't, this feels like me being an AH.

And the comments roll in...

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OP dad did go through tough times

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They made their own choice

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The OP added this piece of information to further clarify things

My parents had 50/50 custody of me and my sister but my sister didn't want to meet dad since she wanted to bond with her 'real' dad. My dad did try to reach out to her, sat her down and asked her if anyone was pressuring her but she was adamant so he had to back off. My mom said I had betrayed her but didn't force me to visit and bio dad never had a conversation with me.

OP's dad is not her twin sister's dad

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OP's mom obtained control of her sister's college fund

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OP's dad has been through enough

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She rejected his money too

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As the college chapter begins, the choices made years ago have created two vastly different paths for the twin sisters. OP stands at the precipice of her future, built on the unwavering foundation of her father's love and sacrifice.

Her sister, however, faces the consequences of aligning with a mother whose actions are defined by God-knows-what. OP chose the quiet devotion of a man who chose to be a father and that is the most valuable gift of all.

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