Woman Vents to Redditors Over Homophobic Remarks Made by Her Family at Christmas
This brave girl came out publicly after her family made some homophobic remarks at a Christmas party.
A Christmas dinner turned tense when one woman heard homophobic remarks from her own family and decided she had had enough. What should have been a normal holiday gathering quickly became a painful reminder that coming out can still feel risky, even around relatives.
The woman, who is in a relationship with another woman, had been trying to keep the peace at a family meal when the comments crossed a line. Instead of staying and pretending everything was fine, she walked out, leaving Reddit to weigh in on whether she handled the moment the right way.
The family dinner did not end quietly.
Leaving a place where we do not feel valued is completely fine, whether it is at a friend's or family member's home.
lovemycar66It is truly sad that even today, some people have to think twice before speaking their hearts out in front of their family.
lovemycar66Sometimes it is better to let go of family if they don’t accept who you are.
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You don't have to deal with anyone who doesn't make you feel comfortable, regardless of the circumstances.
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It is because of homophobic individuals that homosexuals struggle to have their identities accepted.
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I'm surprised that this girl had to hide her sexuality and her girlfriend just to be accepted for a family dinner.
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The people during Grandma's time were the ones who began the fight for equal rights for the LGBTQ+ community.
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Big hugs for standing up for who you are and for your partner; more power to this girl!
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No explanation is needed for leaving a place that does not make you feel comfortable and where sexist and racist remarks are made.
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This is similar to the 28-year-old asking WIBTA about moving in together despite parental disapproval.
Family members are the first people who should respect the homosexual individuals in their family.
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This revolution started way back in the late '60s, and the fight has only become more difficult since then.
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It is sad to see that something that should be naturally accepted by all has to be fought for.
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Being from a different time is no excuse for making racist and sexist comments to one's own family member.
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With age, people should become more accepting and open-minded, not the other way around.
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Gay couples and homosexual individuals have always existed; it is now that they have begun to stand up for themselves publicly.
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The uncle made the homophobic remarks, but the grandmother is the reason they can't come out even to their own family.
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When there is love among family members, there is no need to be ashamed of coming out to them.
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Leaving without actually offending anyone was a better option than staying there and making them realize how homophobic they are.
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And it all starts with saying little things indirectly to the family to change their minds about homosexuality.
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You are fully responsible for your own happiness; either go all out and be happy or just pretend your whole life.
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That was truly toxic. It's really brave of you to come out publicly and let whoever think whatever they want.
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Good for you for coming out early; now you have more time to enjoy yourself freely with your partner.
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The generation gap is real, but it cannot be an excuse to disrespect other people's opinions. It is okay for elders not to accept our choice of a same-sex partner, but it is not okay to object to it.
Share this story with your friends and family and help them come out publicly and to their families. Give them all the love and support they need to become confident in their identity.
Want more fallout over being disowned for coming out? Read the AITA where she excluded her parents from her wedding after they disowned her.
