Man Refuses to Pay More Rent After His Girlfriend Spills His Savings and Roommates Get Angry

Today's story is about friends who live together as roommates. They all agreed on paying their portions of the bills and rent, split 5 ways.

OP's girlfriend revealed his income and he admits it was significantly higher. They'd agreed to split bills evenly, but the others felt it wasn't fair.

Splitting bills with roommates can be challenging. Sometimes, it feels like one person ends up paying more than their fair share.

Disagreements can arise when people have different spending habits or financial priorities. In some cases, people might feel resentful if they're paying a larger portion of the bills, especially if they're on a tight budget.

On the other hand, others might feel that everyone should contribute equally, regardless of income. Finding a balance can be difficult, but it's crucial for maintaining a harmonious living environment.

It is also important to communicate openly and find a solution that works for everyone. As pointed out earlier, OP and some group of friends, all with different financial situations, have decided to live together and split the bills.

OP's income is significantly higher than his roommates', but now they are asking for a change. Will the OP accept this change?

Read on to find out how this story unfolds.

The OP kicks off his story

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It isn’t fair that they have to pay a considerable amount of their monthly earnings

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

I’m refusing to pay more than my fair share of rent and utilities when we agreed to split all expenses 5 ways despite having a considerably higher income than everyone else in the house. I can see why that might make me the AH because percentage wise, monthly expenses don’t impact me at all while those expenses hurt my roommates more.

And the comments roll...

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The OP is not responsible for anyone else

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Rent and utilities should be divided equally

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The OP doesn't have any responsibilities to them

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One Redditor wanted to know why the OP chose to have roommates when he has so much money and this was his reply...

I realized a few of my friends needed some help and I wanted to try my hand at renting a house before buying my own. This is suppose to be a 1 year thing so I’m chalking a lot of the friction to stress from the recent move.

This Redditor wouldn't have had roommates

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OP's girlfriend is the real AH here

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OP's girlfriend is certainly not a keeper

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Having the OP pay more is not right

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OP feels like he's being asked to be a financial safety net without agreeing to it. They all had a deal, and OP is sticking to it.

OP roommates are now trying to guilt trip him into paying more because of his income, which isn't fair. OP is not responsible for their financial struggles, and OP is not obligated to subsidize their lifestyle.

OP is paying his share as agreed, and that's all he is required to do. It seems like they're trying to take advantage of him, and it's good he is not budging.

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