Thoughtless Guy Gets High and Eats Most of His Roommate's Specialty Candies She Bought on Trip to Las Vegas

A 28-year-old woman came back from Las Vegas with specialty candies she picked out herself, and her roommate managed to turn that sweet little flex into a full-blown grievance.

At first, it was just the front door left open after he smoked, plus the little chaos that follows him around when he’s high. Then OP noticed the bigger problem, he didn’t just “taste” her treats, he ate most of them, and offered zero apology for it.

And if the candy incident wasn’t bad enough, he’s also locked OP’s cat in a linen closet for hours, so now the question is whether he’s ever going to stop treating her stuff like it’s communal property.

OP walked away from her roommate disappointed. He could have apologized, but he didn't.

u/VioletThunderX

She just added the incident to the long list of inconsiderate things her roommate does when he's high.

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He leaves the front door open at night after smoking.

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The candy theft might be the headline, but OP’s roommate has been casually creating messes for a while, like leaving the front door open at night after smoking.

This incident clearly highlights a troubling lack of impulse control, particularly when the allure of sweets is combined with altered states of mind. The scenario unfolds as a 28-year-old woman returns from Las Vegas, proudly bearing her carefully selected specialty candies. Yet, her roommate's careless consumption of these treats reveals a disconnect between desire and responsibility. The article suggests that when individuals indulge in substances, their ability to regulate their actions often diminishes, leading to impulsive choices. In this case, the thoughtless act of devouring the roommate's hard-earned goodies underscores a significant need for self-awareness and consideration for others in shared living situations.

From time to time, he also absentmindedly locks OP's cat inside a linen closet for hours.

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To help him learn about respecting other people's property, OP is considering revoking her roommate's access to her gaming console and the other things she freely shares with him.

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Would that be too much of a punishment after what her roommate did?

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Furthermore, this behavior may reflect deeper issues related to entitlement and respect for others' property.

This goes beyond the candy issue. OP's roommate doesn't sound like a great person to live with.

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He is risking their safety whenever he gets high. That's a huge problem.

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OP's cat is always at risk when she leaves it alone in the house with just her roommate.

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That’s when OP has to watch him go from “high and careless” to “high and taking her stuff,” because the Las Vegas candies were supposed to be her souvenir.

This also hits similar nerves to the coworker who betrayed someone’s “exclusive stash” and still demanded office snacks.

In shared living situations, the dynamics of respect and consideration are crucial. Research from the Journal of Social Issues indicates that individuals who feel their autonomy is respected are more likely to engage in cooperative behaviors.

In this context, the roommate's actions disrupt the social contract inherent in shared living arrangements, potentially leading to resentment and conflict.

Redditors think OP will be better off finding a new roommate as soon as she's able to.

WayMoreCowbell

They advised OP not to second-guess her choices and instincts when the evidence to support them is this strong.

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Tough conversations are better than walking into the house one day to find your cat missing because your roommate was too high to lock the front door.

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Even worse, the same roommate who can’t keep his hands off her treats also once trapped OP’s cat in a linen closet for hours, turning “thoughtless” into “dangerous.”

Such conversations can help ensure that everyone feels valued and respected, ultimately fostering a healthier living environment.

We sometimes tolerate terrible behavior from our friends because we know them. OP shouldn't do that.

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How many chances has OP given this guy?

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OP said she's thinking about moving out once her lease is up in six months.

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So OP is floating a petty but pointed idea, cutting off access to her gaming console and other shared items, and wondering if it’s finally the wake-up he needs.

Practical Solutions for Roommate Conflicts

To prevent future conflicts, establishing a roommate agreement can be a practical step. This agreement could outline expectations regarding shared resources and personal property, promoting accountability and respect.

It's really not just about the candy. OP's roommate cannot be trusted or relied upon—qualities that are essential in a person you'll live with day in and day out.

As for the candies, Redditors pointed OP to some online stores that probably sell the specialty candies her roommate thoughtlessly ate. May OP have better luck with her next roommate.

Additionally, promoting open communication about personal boundaries can enhance roommate dynamics.

This incident reveals the delicate balance of impulse control and respect that is critical in shared living arrangements.

Now he’s wondering if he really is the problem, because OP’s patience is running out faster than those specialty candies.

Want more roommate boundaries drama, like when her girlfriend raided a secret snack stash?