Woman Shares How She Went On A Date With A Supposed "Nice Guy" But Was Uncomfortable All Through
"I’ll surprise you. I know what you want."
A 28-year-old woman went on what was supposed to be a “nice guy” date, and it turned into an all-you-can-eat awkwardness buffet. The vibe started normal, then got weird fast, like the kind of date where you keep checking the door to see if you can make a clean exit.
She thanked him for taking her to the restaurant, and he answered with “You’re welcome,” then immediately took over everything. When the waitress came over, he tried ordering for her, even after she said she hates surprises. He kept steamrolling the conversation through wine/no wine decisions, calorie math, and questions about what “women like,” while she tried to hold onto basic control, like choosing her own food and even getting a word in.
By the time he was getting the door and telling her not to “make a scene,” the comments were already calling it what it looked like.
Even fantastic first dates occasionally end in awkwardness
TikTok/TalisaTheir conversation kicks off:
Me: Thank you for taking me here.
Him: You’re welcome.
Waitress: All right, I’ll get those going and then I’ll come back and grab your order.
Me: Thank you very much. Alright, so I liked what she had mentioned about the scallops. That sounded really good. I’m a big seafood fan, so I think I’m gonna do that.
Him: Let me order for you. I’ll surprise you. I know what you want.
Me: I hate surprises. You know this place better than me so…
The guy practically controlled everything
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The tiktoker made it clear that she hates surprises
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Rib eye with mashed potatoes
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Oh okay
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Wine or no wine?
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So no wine then
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Adding calories to one's body
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A nice little date
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What are you looking for?
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Knowing what women like
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Here goes nothing
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A cut above the rest
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Having what I have
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Taking the soup too
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Can't even order
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He thinks he's nice
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Drinking in all awkwardness
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You will not embarrass me
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It goes on...
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Just don't make a scene
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A gentleman gets the door
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Getting there a lot faster
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Want another uncomfortable date moment? This is like the etiquette expert who insisted on separate bills after her dates showed rude behavior.
Getting the door
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People's opinions on this guy are evident in the comments and here are some of them
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Way too many dudes like this
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So many red flags
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Pickup artist
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Society is devolving
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The red flag
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Calling an uber
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Toxic chivalry
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That is terrifying
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A cage in my basement
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Lasting longer than necessary
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Adding no calories
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Everything feels sociopathic
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Going on a date
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Run!
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My cue to leave
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Freaking comment
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Running the other way
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So women like less calories
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This commenter has encountered such men before
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Choosing her own food
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A short story
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Red flag after red flag
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Serial killer vibes
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Getting the rib eye
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Ignoring everything
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Hats off
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The red wine
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Talisa released a second (now-deleted) Tiktok video after the first one went viral to clarify that it was only a parody of a bad date she had
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When he tells the waitress he’ll “surprise” her, it’s clear this date is less about dinner and more about him running the script.
The second she pushes back on surprises, the menu turns into a debate, from rib eye to mashed potatoes to whether there’s “wine or no wine.”
Every time he answers for her, like “What are you looking for?” and “Knowing what women like,” the table energy gets colder.
By the time he’s insisting she will not “embarrass” him and he’s getting the door, the whole thing feels like a trap, not a treat.
Not all dates will have a perfect ending, but this TikToker seems to have her date going wrong from the start. It's just so annoying to find out that Mr Nice Guy is just doing everything wrong.
Have you encountered such a person before? How did you handle it?
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Now he’s wondering if he’s actually a “nice guy,” or just the problem dressed for dinner.
That awkward dinner energy? See how a tipping dispute over 20% after a $190 meal flipped everything.
That tipping dispute, where his “nice guy” act crumbled after she didn’t tip 20% on a $190 dinner.
