TikToker Explains What Men Think Women Find Attractive Compared With What Women Actually Find Attractive And It Is Super Interesting
Let's talk about the female gaze...
Okay, before we get into this, it is extremely important to state that all bodies are good bodies. What matters is that YOU are happy and that YOU like how you look; all bodies are wonderful simply because they take care of us.
Sometimes, though, people become very focused on trying to understand what makes them attractive to others and on trying to live up to this ideal. It does not always work out the way they think, and there might be a reason for it.
This TikToker, after seeing someone confused about it, explained the concept of the female gaze.
First up, this guy posts his stories.
torres.alejandro on TikTokWhat he looks like now:
torres.alejandro on TikTokWhat he looked like before:
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To be honest, he looks great in both!
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BUT, ENTER: someone who has been waiting for this!
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I'm sure someone has asked them what the point of a gender studies minor is, and THIS IS IT.
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Firstly, the female gaze is based on eyes and hands.
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The term "male power fantasy" is introduced
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It's the difference between what women want and what men think they want.
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Oops!
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And here it is...
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Find the full video below!
For more insights, follow Dr. Esther Perel, couples therapist and author, who states, "Desire is often shaped by our experiences and expectations, leading to a complex interplay between what we think we want and what we truly desire." Additionally, check out Dr. Pepper Schwartz, sociologist, who emphasizes, "Understanding attraction involves recognizing the differences in how men and women perceive each other, which can often lead to miscommunication in relationships."
So there you have it! The female gaze! Tell us your thoughts in the comments!
Don't forget, though, everyone is beautiful in their own way—regardless of what society might say.
