TikToker Explains What Men Think Women Find Attractive Compared With What Women Actually Find Attractive And It Is Super Interesting
Let's talk about the female gaze...
Some people spend a lot of time trying to figure out what makes them attractive, and TikTok is always ready to turn that question into a whole conversation. In this case, one creator broke down the difference between what men often think women find attractive and what women actually respond to.
The video leans into the idea of the female gaze, and the contrast is part of what makes it so interesting. It is a simple setup, but the reactions and examples make the whole thing feel surprisingly relatable.
First up, this guy posts his stories.
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torres.alejandro on TikTokWhat he looked like before:
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To be honest, he looks great in both!
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BUT, ENTER: someone who has been waiting for this!
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That is where the conversation really starts to shift.
I'm sure someone has asked them what the point of a gender studies minor is, and THIS IS IT.
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Firstly, the female gaze is based on eyes and hands.
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And now the point is getting a lot more specific.
The term "male power fantasy" is introduced
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It's the difference between what women want and what men think they want.
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Oops!
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Find the full video below!
For more insights, follow Dr. Esther Perel, couples therapist and author, who states, "Desire is often shaped by our experiences and expectations, leading to a complex interplay between what we think we want and what we truly desire." Additionally, check out Dr. Pepper Schwartz, sociologist, who emphasizes, "Understanding attraction involves recognizing the differences in how men and women perceive each other, which can often lead to miscommunication in relationships."
So there you have it, the female gaze. Tell us your thoughts in the comments!
Don't forget, though, everyone is beautiful in their own way, regardless of what society might say.
